Вредно для несовершеннолетних

of Teens on Dating, Intimacy, and Sexual Experiences,' reported by SIECUS, SHOP Talk Bulletin 2 (April 17, 1998).

10. Good Touch

1. Ashley Montagu, Touching: The Human Significance of the Skin, 3d ed. (New York: Harper and Row/Perennial, 1986), 33.

2. Stephen J. Suomi, 'The Role of Touch in Rhesus Monkey Social Development,' in Catherine Caldwell Brown, ed., The Many Facets of Touch (n.p.: Johnson and Johnson Baby Products, 1996), 41-50. 3. Montagu, Touching, 97-99.

4. Madtrulika Gupta et al., 'Perceived Touch Deprivation and Body Image: Some Observations among Eating Disordered and Non-Clinical Subjects,' Journal of Psychosomatic Research 39 (May 1995): 459-64.

5. The French children were touched more. Author interview, 1999.

6. James W. Prescott, 'Body Pleasure and the Origins of Violence,' Futurist (April 1975): 66.

7. Clellan S. Ford and Frank A. Beach, Patterns of Sexual Behavior (New York: Harper/Colophon Books, 1951), 180.

8. Alfred C. Kinsey, Wardell B. Pomeroy, and Clyde E. Martin, Sexual Behavior in the Human Male (Philadelphia: W. B. Saunders, 1948), 177. Kinsey also notes observations of infant girls in 'masturbatory activity' to what he called orgasm. Alfred C. Kinsey, Wardell B. Pomeroy, Clyde E. Martin, and Paul H. Gebhard, Sexual Behavior in the Human Female (Philadelphia: W. B. Saunders, 1953), 141-42.

9. Robin J. Lewis and Louis H. Janda, 'The Relationship between Adult Sexual Adjustment and Childhood Experiences Regarding Exposure to Nudity, Sleeping in the Parental Bed, and Parental Attitudes toward Sexuality,' Archives of Sexual Behavior 17, no. 4 (1988): 349-62; Paul Okami, 'Childhood Exposure to Parental Nudity, Parent-Child Co-Sleeping, and 'Primal Scenes': A Review of Clinical Opinion and Empirical Evidence,' Journal of Sex Research 32, no. 1 (1995): 51-64.

10. Tamar Lewin, 'Breast-Feeding: How Old Is Too Old?' New York Times, February 18, 2001, 'Week in Review.'

11. Lewin, 'Breast-Feeding.'

12. Richard Johnson, unpublished manuscript, March 1998.

13. This has been reported to me by many sex educators, including the veteran Peggy Brick, of Planned Parenthood of Greater Northern New Jersey.

14. Joseph Tobin, ed., Making a Place for Pleasure in Early Childhood Education (New Haven: Yale University Press, 1997).

15. 'It is unclear whether prevention programs are working or even that they are more beneficial than harmful,' concluded N. Dickson Reppucci and Jeffrey J. Haugaard. See their 'Prevention of Child Sexual Abuse: Myth or Reality,' American Psychologist 44 (October 1989): 1266.

16. One study measured a 50 percent rise in fear levels among children who had been subjected to a prevention program that made use of comic-book characters. J. Garbarino, 'Children's Response to a Sexual Abuse Prevention Program: A Study of the Spiderman Comic,' Child Abuse and Neglect: The International Journal 11 (1987): 143-48.

17. Bonnie Trudell and M. Whatley, 'School Sexual Abuse Prevention: Unintended Consequences and Dilemmas,' Child Abuse and Neglect 12 (1988): 108.

18. Thomas W. Laqueur, 'The Social Evil, the Solitary Vice, and Pouring Tea,' in Solitary Pleasures, ed. Bennett and Rosario, 157.

19. Alice Balint, The Psychoanalysis of the Nursery (New York: Routledge and Kegan Paul, 1953), 79.

20. Benjamin Spock, Baby and Child Care, rev. ed. (New York: Pocket Books, 1976), 411.

21. John H. Gagnon, 'Attitudes and Responses of Parents to Pre-Adolescent Masturbation,' Archives of Sexual Behavior 14 (1985): 451.

22. Congressional Record, 103d Congress, 2d session, 1994, vol. 140, H 9995- 10001.

23. Joycelyn Elders, 'The Dreaded 'M' Word,' in nerve: Literate Smut, ed. Genevieve Field and Rufus Griscom (New York: Broadway Books, 1998), 130.

24. William N. Friedrich and Patricia Grambsch, 'Child Sexual Behavior Inventory: Normative and Clinical Comparison,' Psychological Assessment 4 (1992): 303-11.

25. Friedrich and Grambsch, 'Child Sexual Behavior Inventory.'

26. Robin L. Leavitt and Martha Bauman Power, 'Civilizing Bodies: Children in Day Care,' in Making a Place for Pleasure in Early Childhood Education, ed. Tobin, 39-75.

27. Leavitt and Power, 'Civilizing Bodies,' 45-46.

28. Peggy Brick, Sue Montford, and Nancy Blume, Healthy Foundations: The Teacher's Book (Hackensack, N.J.: Center for Family Life Education/Planned Parenthood of Greater Northern New Jersey, 1993), 2-7.

29. Larry L. Constantine and Floyd M. Martinson, eds., Children and Sex: New Findings, New Perspectives (Boston: Little, Brown, 1981), 30.

30. Nancy Blackman, 'Pleasure and Touching: Their Significance in the Development of the Preschool Child,' paper delivered at the International Symposium on Childhood and Sexuality, Montreal, September 1979.

31. Outercourse was named, but not invented, in the 1970s. Even before the eighteenth century, when travel was slow and distances long, there was 'bundling.' 'The practice allowed a [courting] couple to spend a night together in bed as long as they remained fully clothed or, in some cases, kept a 'bundling board' between them. . . . Parents and youth shared the expectation that sexual intercourse would not take place, but if it did, and pregnancy resulted, the couple would certainly marry.' John D'Emilio and Estelle B. Freedman, Intimate Matters: A History of Sexuality in America (New York: Harper and Row, 1988), 22.

32. Marty Klein and Riki Robbins, Let Me Count the Ways: Discovering Great Sex without Intercourse (New York: Jeremy P. Tarcher/Putnam, 1998), 125.

33. Leonore Tiefer, 'Bring Back the Kids' Stuff,' in Sex Is Not a Natural Act, 71. Note from a detractor who read this chapter: 'This strikes me as a crock, remembering instances of petting with strangers. ...'

34. Tiefer, 'Bring Back the Kids' Stuff,' 70.

35. Advocates for Youth, 'Adolescent Sexual Health in Europe and the U.S.' (2001). 36. Klein and Robbins, Let Me Count the Ways.

11. Community

1. Patton, Fatal Advice, 34. Patton was not the only one to indict abstinence education as a killer. In 1997, the International AIDS Conference proclaimed that the abstinence-only 'approach place[d] policy in direct conflict with science and ignore[d] overwhelming evidence that other programs would be effective.' In the face of a worldwide health crisis, conferees strongly suggested, teaching 'just say no' was worse than a waste of public resources. It was lethal.

2. Half of the forty thousand new HIV infections a year are in people under twenty-five, according to estimates from the Centers for Disease Control and the National Institutes of Health. Bill Alexander, 'Adolescent HIV Rates Soar; Government Piddles,' Youth Today (March/April 1997): 29.

3. They were down 44 percent in the first six months of 1997 compared with 1996. Altman, 'AIDS Deaths Drop 48% in New York.'

4. Hilts, 'AIDS Deaths Continue to Rise in 25-44 Age Group.'

5. Including those who inject drugs, the numbers fell from 65 percent in 1981 to 44 percent in 1996. Centers for Disease Control, Atlanta, Ga., March 1996.

6. Interview with Gary Remafedi, director of the University of Minnesota/Minneapolis Youth and AIDS Project, 1998.

7. 'Rate of AIDS Has Slowed,' New York Times, April 25, 1998, A9. African