People who don’t
How frightened of dying I was in those first days. I don’t want to die because I keep on thinking of the future. I’m
I love, I adore my age.
I keep on having thoughts today. One was: uncreative men plus opportunity-to-create equals evil men.
Another one was: killing him was breaking my word to what I believe. Some people would say—you’re only a drop, your word-breaking is only a drop, it wouldn’t matter. But all the evil in the world’s made up of little drops. It’s silly talking about the unimportance of the little drops. The little drops and the ocean are the same thing.
I’ve been daydreaming (not for the first time) about living with G.P. He deceives me, he leaves me, he is brutal and cynical with me, I am in despair. In these daydreams there isn’t much sex, it’s just our living together. In rather romantic surroundings. Sea-and-island northern landscapes. White cottages. Sometimes in the Mediterranean. We are together, very close in spirit. All silly magazine stuff, really, in the details. But there is the closeness of spirit. That is something real. And the situations I imagine (where he forsakes me) are real. I mean, it kills me to think of them.
Sometimes I’m not very far from utter despair. No one knows I am alive any more. I’m given up for dead by now, I’m accepted for dead. There’s that—the real situation. And there are the future situations I sit on the bed here and think about: my
If he really loved me he couldn’t have sent me away.
If he really loved me he would have sent me away.
Midnight.
I’ll never escape. It drives me mad. I must must must do something. I feel as if I’m at the earth’s heart. I’ve got the whole weight of the whole earth pressing in on this little box. It grows smaller smaller smaller. I can feel it contracting.
I want to scream sometimes. Till my voice is raw. To death.
I can’t write it. There aren’t the words.
Utter despair.
I’ve been like that all day. A kind of endless panic in slow-motion.
What can he have thought when he first got me here?
Something’s gone wrong in his plans. I’m not acting like the girl of his dreams I was. I’m his pig in a poke.
Is that why he keeps me? Hoping the dream Miranda will appear?
Perhaps I should be his dream-girl. Put my arms round him and kiss him. Praise him, pat him, stroke him. Kiss him.
I didn’t mean that. But it’s made me think.
Perhaps I really should kiss him. More than kiss him. Love him. Make Prince Charming step out.
I’m thinking hours between each sentence I write.
I’ve got to make him feel that finally I’ve been touched by his chivalry and so on and so on . . .
This is extraordinary.
He would have to act.
I am sure I can do it. At least he’s scrupulously clean. He never smells of anything but soap.
I’m going to sleep on it.
I’ve come to a tremendous decision today.
I’ve imagined being in bed with him.
It’s useless just kissing him. I’ve got to give him such a tremendous shock that he’ll have to release me. Because you can’t very well imprison someone who’s given herself to you.
I shall be in his power. I couldn’t ever go to the police. I should only want to hush it up.
It’s so obvious. It stares one in the face.
Like a really good sacrifice at chess.
It’s like drawing. You can’t nibble at a line. The boldness is the line.
I thought out all the sex facts. I wish I knew a little more about men, I wish I was absolutely sure, that I didn’t have to go on things heard, read, half understood, but I’m going to let him do what Piers wanted to do in Spain—what they call Scotch love. Get me into bed if he wants. Play with me if he wants. But not the final thing. I’m going to tell him it’s my time of the month, if he tries to go too far. But I think he’ll be so shocked that I shall be able to make him do what I want. I mean, I’m going to do all the seducing. I know it would be a terrible risk with ninety-nine men out of a hundred, but I think he’s the hundredth. He’ll stop when I tell him.
Even if it came to the point. He didn’t stop. I’d take the risk.
There are two things. One’s the need to make him let me go. The other’s me. Something I wrote on Nov. 7th—'I love being to the full, I love everything which is not sitting and watching.” But I’m not being to the full at all. I’m just sitting and watching. Not only here. With G.P.
All this Vestal Virgin talk about “saving yourself up” for the right man. I’ve always despised it. Yet I’ve always held back.
I’m mean with my body.
I’ve got to get this meanness out of the way.
I’ve got sunk in a sort of despair. Something will happen, I say. But nothing will, unless I make it.
I must act.
Another thing I wrote (one writes things and the implications shriek—it’s like suddenly realizing one’s deaf), “I must fight with my weapons. Not his. Not selfishness and brutality and shame and resentment.”
Therefore with generosity (I give myself) and gentleness (I kiss the beast) and no-shame (I do what I do of my own free will) and forgiveness (he can’t help himself).
Even a baby.
The more I think about it the more I feel sure that this is the way.
He has some secret. He must want me physically.
Perhaps he’s “no good.”
Whatever it is, it will come out.
We’ll know where we are.
I haven’t written much about G.P. these last days. But I think about him a great deal. The first and last thing I look at every day is his picture. I begin to hate that unknown girl who was his model. He must have gone to bed with her. Perhaps she was his first wife. I shall ask him when I get out.
Because the first thing I shall do—the first real positive thing, after I’ve seen the family, will be to go to see him. To tell him that he has been always in my thoughts. That he is the most important person I have ever met. The most real. That I
Perhaps he would be dry and cold when it came to it. Say I’m too young, he wasn’t ever really serious, and—a thousand things. But I’m not afraid. I would risk it.
Perhaps he’s in mid-
