Think about all the time that you have spent talking with coworkers about
I believe that most people don't even realize how much time they spend on this habit. Make a point of timing the next marathon conversation about why
Be conscious of these conversations. Get good at detecting when they have gone from quick discussion to time waster, and walk away.
Wasteful Meetings
We can often find ourselves deluged with meeting after meeting. That's OK if work is getting done, but learn how to detect when meetings are wasteful .
There are many kinds of meetings, but let's group them into two general types: status meetings and work meetings.
It can be a waste of everyone's time if you try to problem-solve during a status meeting. If something can't be resolved quickly, pick a time for the involved parties to work it out—don't waste everyone's time. I find it useful to have that meeting immediately after the current meeting. People not involved can leave or drop off the conference call. Everyone is already together, so there's usually no scheduling conflicts to work out.
When I email an announcement of a meeting, I indicate whether it is a work or status meeting. This makes it clear what people should expect and puts them in the right mindset. It also makes it easier for the facilitator to cut off inappropriate discussions when they arise.
As a participant, I realized that I had an influence on whether the meeting was going to be a waste of time. Being on time significantly improved the meeting's efficiency. Being prepared (reading the material being reviewed, etc.) meant I wasn't dragging the meeting down. If I was presenting material, emailing copies to everyone a day early made other people better prepared (though that meant I had to be prepared a day early). I always send an email reminder about meetings 24 hours in advance. This reduces the number of people who arrive late or people who disrupt the meeting's effectiveness by not showing up at all.
Tips for Meeting Facilitators
Always send a reminder email 24 hours in advance.
Make it clear whether this is a status or work meeting.
List the full date ('Friday, Dec 2,' not just 'tomorrow').
List the time. If you work across time zones, list the time and time zone; don't assume people know your time zone. Better yet, include the time converted to all appropriate zones.
Include URLs to the documents people will need. Even if this is the third meeting about a particular document, keep including the URL. (Include the document as an attachment only when you have no other choice or when some members don't have access to your Wiki.)
Include a written agenda—a simple outline of the issues to be covered.
Show up five minutes early, or earlier if there is audio/visual equipment to be set up.
If you want people to show up on time, don't announce that the meeting starts at 2 p.m., announce that it starts at 1:54 p.m. People will show up to find out why it starts at such a strange time.
Always start on time. If people are constantly late, start on time and put the most important items first. Don't repeat the items for latecomers; tell them the info will be in the minutes. People will start coming on time. (They'll hate you, but they'll be on time.)
I learned to hold back from having side conversations. I realized that while I felt my witty comments were a gift to all who heard them, they derailed meetings more than I had realized; so, I learned to keep my mouth shut.