“That will be forty dollars.”
I sighed.
Here I stood in the hallways of the New School, a haven for academics and literati since World War I, the 1930s East Coast nexus for intellectuals and scientists fleeing the Nazis. Within this school’s sphere, luminaries such as William Styron, Edward Albee, Robert Frost, Arthur Miller, and Joyce Carol Oates had taught or lectured, along with cranky, controversial iconoclasts like psychologist Wilhelm Reich and psychedelic guru Timothy Leary.
And what amazing lecture was I about to hear? “Trent” and “Granger” talking about how to pick up the opposite sex without the crutch of a Web site.
I paid cash.
Low-neckline Girl turned to Matteo and asked if he wanted to register as well. My ex didn’t answer immediately — the woman’s cleavage and full lips had momentarily distracted him.
Luckily, my elbow to his ribs solved this dilemma.
The auditorium was large enough for a thousand people, but less than two hundred were crowded together in the first ten or twelve rows, over two-thirds of them female. Almost all the audience members looked to be over thirty and under fifty.
As we found seats close to the stage, Matteo complained incessantly that he had to pay sixty dollars to gain admission.
“You could feed a Kenyan family for six months on sixty bucks.”
“Hush and you might learn something.”
He shot me a look that said “I doubt it,” but he shut up for the moment.
On stage was a tall man with dark, floppy, Hugh Grant hair and thin lips. He wore a tight black shirt, open at the neck, black slacks, and a charcoal gray Italian silk jacket. He moved with confidence, and as he spoke he drifted back and forth across the stage, addressing audience members as if they were the focus of his lecture.
“So far we’ve covered the rules of engagement and how important they are,” he said into a microphone. “And how those vitally important rules get trashed in most on-line hook-ups. Now we all remember rule number one, right?”
The man next to him — shorter and a little stout, with tiny dark-rimmed glasses and a round face — hit the button on his power pointer and a phrase appeared on a large blank screen behind them. On cue, the audience read along like it was karaoke night.
“Not all of the Creator’s children are beautiful,” the audience chanted.
“And rule number two?” Matteo whispered. “These guys are total grifters.”
“So how do you know if they’re hot or not,” continued the man on stage, “if you don’t meet them in the flesh? Is she a Monica or a Hillary? Is he Prince Andrew or Homer Simpson? The dirty little secret is that you’ll never know if you meet them in a chat room. But you
He emphasized the last words with what he thought was an erotic thrust of his pelvis — but this guy was no Elvis. Beside me, Matteo let out a disgusted sigh.
“That’s why I’m here. My name’s Trent. And this money dude right next to me is Granger. Granger and I have sacrificed our Saturday night to provide you with a guaranteed map through the minefield of real-time, face-to-face hook-ups.”
Trent stepped closer to the edge of the stage and lowered his voice an octave.
“Ladies and gentlemen, we call it dating without the Net — it’s real, it’s risky, but the rewards are well worth the hassles. I’m asking you to try, at least for a little while, pulling the plug on that computer. Douse that mouse. Be the player with all the right cards in your hand and you’ll come up a winner every time — and find a better love life than you ever dreamed possible.”
“I can’t believe this,” Matteo complained in my ear. “They’re teaching supposedly urbane, sophisticated, well-educated New Yorkers how to hook up with the opposite sex? Some of us figured that one out in high school.”
“You figured it out in the sixth grade,” I whispered.
Matteo frowned. “I told you about Maggie?”
A thirty-something woman in the row in front of us turned, and I’m pretty sure she intended to shush us. But when she laid eyes on my ex, her resolve seemed to weaken — as well as her knees. She glanced flirtatiously at Matt, then gave me a nasty look.
“He’s all yours, honey,” I murmured.
Matt glanced at me, and we both laughed.
“In the next hour, we’re going to look at the right places to find a perfect match,” purred Trent. “It’s like The Donald says — location, location, location — and you’d be amazed at how many people get it wrong.
“Are you looking for a disco diva? Don’t try to score at the Natural History Museum. Got a clandestine office romance going? Don’t take her to the boss’s country club for dinner. Looking for hot, delicious, no-commitment sex? Don’t cruise church groups! Remember rule number seven.”
Granger activated the power pointer and the audience chanted along.
“When looking for a love location,
“I’m going to puke,” Matteo groaned in my ear.
“Just don’t do it on me,” I warned him.
“We’re going to take a twenty-minute break before part two of this seminar begins,” Trent announced. “Don’t forget to take a brochure, and I suggest all you latecomers chat up a few of the early birds to catch up on what you missed — and you might even make a connection…”
The stage went dark and the audience rose and stretched, murmuring among themselves.
“Let’s go,” said Matt, grabbing my hand. He practically dragged me down the aisle, rudely pushing his way through the crowd as we moved against the flow of traffic. I apologized to the folks my ex shoved aside, until the way to the stage was finally clear.
“Matt, what’s gotten into you?”
Matteo’s face was set in harsh lines as he surged forward.
“Quiet,” he said. “Just getting into character.”
One of the stage hands moved to block our path, but he was just a slender college kid with a backward baseball cap. Matteo pushed right past him and charged onto the stage. Trent and Granger were sitting there, fiddling with the power pointer. Matt walked right up to them and roared in a suitably angry and combative voice.
“My underage daughter registered with your site and has dated a number of middle-aged men. Some of her friends did the same thing. She’s just a teenager! She’s in junior high for God’s sake! I want to know the names of the men she and her friends have gone out with or I’m going to the police.”
Granger shrank back fearfully as Matteo’s tanned and muscular form stood over him, fists clenched, a vein throbbing in his temple.
Trent, on the other hand, remained cool. I watched him glance out at the auditorium, where heads turned and necks craned to hear more.
Frankly, I had to hand it to Trent. Matteo was always a pretty intimidating presence, but when he was angry, he was a force of nature — a lot of men would have become sniveling idiots in the face of Matt’s fury, calling for security or running. But Trent didn’t.
He faced Matteo and, with a forced smile, gamely tried to handle him, and the situation, professionally. “Listen, calm down, Mr. — ?”
“Allegro.”
“Mr. Allegro, this isn’t the time or place. Come to my office Monday and — ”
“My daughter and her friends are out on dates right now. By Monday I’ll have you arrested for facilitating the corruption of a minor!” yelled Matteo.
More heads turned. People who had started wandering toward the auditorium’s exit doors for a smoke or restroom break suddenly decided to loiter in the aisle, eavesdropping.
“Come with me,” said Trent, leading Matteo and me to a small waiting room behind the stage. On his way out, Trent ordered Granger to fetch one of the laptops from the registration desk.
