length skirt, the paisley pattern resembling germs as seen through a microscope. A beaded headband, delicate wire-rimmed glasses: she'd ask you for a quarter, and you'd laugh, not cruelly, but politely, softly, as if she were telling a joke you had already heard.
Hejira
IT WASN'T ANYTHING I had planned on, but at the age of twenty-two, after dropping out of my second college and traveling across the country a few times, I found myself back in Raleigh, living in my parents' basement. After six months spent waking at noon, getting high, and listening to the same Joni Mitchell record over and over again, I was called by my father into his den and told to get out. He was sitting very formally in a big, comfortable chair behind his desk, and I felt as though he were firing me from the job of being his son.
I'd been expecting this to happen, and it honestly didn't bother me all that much. The way I saw it, being kicked out of the house was just what I needed if I was ever going to get back on my feet. 'Fine,' I said, 'I'll go. But one day you'll be sorry.'
I had no idea what I meant by this. It just seemed like the sort of thing a person should say when he was being told to leave.
My sister Lisa had an apartment over by the university and said that I could come stay with her as long as I didn't bring my Joni Mitchell record. My mother offered to drive me over, and after a few bong hits I took her up on it. It was a fifteen-minute trip across town, and on the way we listened to the rebroadcast of a radio call-in show in which people phoned the host to describe the various birds gathered around their backyard feeders. Normally the show came on in the morning, and it seemed strange to listen to it at night. The birds in question had gone to bed hours ago and probably had no idea they were still being talked about. I chewed this over and wondered if anyone back at the house was talking aboutme. To the best of my knowledge, no one had ever tried to imitate my voice or describe the shape of my head, and it was depressing that I went unnoticed while a great many people seemed willing to drop everything for a cardinal.
My mother pulled up in front of my sister's apartment building, and when I opened the car door she started to cry, which worried me, as she normally didn't do things like that. It wasn't one of those 'I'm going to miss you' things, but something sadder and more desperate than that. I wouldn't know it until months later, but my father had kicked me out of the house not because I was a bum but because I was gay. Our little talk was supposed to be one of those denning moments that shape a person's adult life, but he'd been so uncomfortable with the most important word that he'd left it out completely, saying only, 'I think we both know why I'm doing this.' I guess I could have pinned him down, I just hadn't seen the point. 'Is it because I'm a failure? A drug addict? A sponge? Come on, Dad, just give me one good reason.'
Who wants to say that?
My mother assumed that I knew the truth, and it tore her apart. Here was yet another defining moment, and again I missed it entirely. She cried until it sounded as if she were choking. 'I'm sorry,' she said. 'I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.'
I figured that within a few weeks I'd have a job and some crummy little apartment. It didn't seem insurmountable, but my mother's tears made me worry that finding these things might be a little harder than I thought. Did she honestly think I was that much of a loser?
'Really,' I said, 'I'll be fine.'
The car light was on and I wondered what the passing drivers thought as they watched my mother sob. What kind of people did they think we were? Did they think she was one of those crybaby moms who fell apart every time someone chipped a coffee cup? Did they assume I'd said something to hurt her? Did they see us as just another crying mother and her stoned gay son, sitting in a station wagon and listening to a call-in show about birds, or did they imagine, for just one moment, that we might be special?
Slumus Lordicus
WHEN SHE FELT CERTAIN that she had seen every black-and-white movie ever made, my mother signed up for cable and began watching late-night infomercials in the kitchen. My father would wander up from the basement at about four, and the two of them would spend a pleasant half hour making fun of whatever happened to be on. 'Give me a break,' they'd chuckle. 'Please!'
The only such program they managed to take seriously was hosted by a self-made man who had earned a fortune in real estate and addressed his studio audience as if they were students cramming for a final. The blackboard was in constant use. Charts and graphs were pointed at with a stick, but no matter how many times he explained it, I simply could not understand what the guy was talking about. It seemed that by refinancing his house, he had bought seventeen more, which were then rented out, allowing him to snatch up a shopping center and several putt-putt courses. If you went through his pockets, you'd be lucky to find twenty dollars, but on paper he was worth millions. Or so he claimed.
If accumulating property were truly this easy, it seemed that everyone would be following the millionaire's advice, but that was the catch: not everyone was awake at fourA.M. While the rest of the world was fast sleep, you, the viewer, had chosen to better yourself, and wasn't that half the battle? I was between apartments at the time and saw the program twice before I left my parents' house and moved into a place of my own. That was the spring of 1980. A year later my mother and father owned a dozen duplexes on the south side of Raleigh, and were on their way.
We called our parents slumlords, but in fact the duplexes were not bad-looking. Each unit featured a bay window, parquet floors, and a fair-size yard shaded with trees. When first built, they were occupied by white people, but the neighborhood had changed since then, and with the exception of an elderly shut-in, all of the tenants were black. A few had jobs, but most were on public assistance, which meant, for us, that their rent was paid by the government, and usually on time.
The idea had been for my parents to work as a team — she would handle the leases, and he would see to any repairs.
I assumed that, like always, my father would take over and do everything himself, but for once he acted according to plan. Deeds were signed, and within a month my mother was fluent in the various acronyms of the state and federal housing departments. Forms arrived, and the duplicates were sorted into stacks, the overflow spilling from the basement den to my former bedroom, which now served as a makeshift office. 'Should this go under RHA or FHA?' my mother would ask. 'Does B.J. qualify for AFDC or just the SSI?' She'd sit at the desk, her elbows smudged with copier fluid, and I'd feel sorry for everyone involved.
On a selfish note, 'The Empire,' as we liked to call it, provided me with an occasional job — a week of painting or weatherproofing or digging up a yard in search of a pipe. The downside was that I'd be doing these things for my father, meaning that the pay was negotiable. I'd present a time card, and he would dispute it, whittling my hours to a figure he considered more reasonable. 'You expect me to believe you were there every day from nine until five? No lunch, no cigarette breaks, no sitting in the closet with your finger up your nose?'
The video monitor in my head would show me engaging in these very activities, and he would somehow catch a glimpse of it. 'I knew it. I'll pay you for thirty hours, and that's just because I'm nice.'
If we'd agreed on a flat rate — say, $300 in cash to paint an apartment — I might wind up with a check for $220, to be followed at the end of the year by aI 099-MISC form. Every job ended in an argument, my empty threats and petty name-calling put on ice and saved for the ride home. The tenants would have loved to watch us screaming at each other, and so we did our best to deny them that pleasure. Alone in the car we were
