• Third, once you've decided on all the actions you need to take, you must keep reminders of them organized in a system you review regularly.
An Important Exercise to Test This Model
I suggest that you
Maybe you have a vacation trip coming up that you need to make some major last-minute decisions about. Or perhaps you just inherited six million dollars and you don't know what to do with the cash. Whatever.
Got it? Good. Now describe, in a single written sentence, your intended successful outcome for this problem or situation. In other words, what would need to happen for you to check this 'project' off as 'done'? It could be as simple as 'Take the Hawaii vacation,' 'Handle situation with customer X,' 'Resolve college situation with Susan,' 'Clarify new divisional management structure,' or 'Implement new investment strategy.' All clear? Great.
Now write down the
Got the answer to that? Good.
Was there any value for you in these two minutes of thinking? If you're like the vast majority of people who complete that drill during my seminars, you'll be experiencing at least a tiny bit of enhanced control, relaxation, and focus. You'll also be feeling more motivated to actually
If anything at all positive happened for you in this little exercise, think about this: What changed? What happened to create that improved condition within your own experience? The situation itself is no further along, at least in the physical world. It's certainly not finished yet. What probably happened is that you acquired a clearer definition of the outcome desired and the next action required.
But what created that? The answer is,
The Real Work of Knowledge Work
Welcome to the real-life experience of 'knowledge work,' and a profound operational principle:
Most people have a resistance to initiating the burst of energy that it will take to clarify the real meaning, for them, of something they have let into their world, and to decide what they need to do about it. We're never really taught that we have to think about our work before we can do it; much of our daily activity is already defined for us by the undone and unmoved things staring at us when we come to work, or by the family to be fed, the laundry to be done, or the children to be dressed at home. Thinking in a concentrated manner to define desired outcomes is something few people feel they have to do. But in truth, outcome thinking is one of the most effective means available for making wishes reality.
Why Things Are on Your Mind
Most often, the reason something is 'on your mind' is that you want it to be different than it currently is, and yet:
• you haven't clarified exactly what the intended outcome is;
• you haven't decided what the very next physical action step is;
and/or
• you haven't put reminders of the outcome and the action required in a system you trust.
That's why it's on your mind. Until those thoughts have been clarified and those decisions made, and the resulting data has been stored in a system that you
Your Mind Doesn't Have a Mind of Its Own
At least a portion of your mind is really kind of stupid, in an interesting way. If it had any innate intelligence, it would remind you of the things you needed to do
Do you have a flashlight somewhere with dead batteries in it? When does your mind tend to remind you that you need new batteries? When you notice the dead ones! That's not very smart. If your mind had any innate intelligence, it would remind you about those dead batteries only when you passed live ones in a store. And ones of the right size, to boot.
Between the time you woke up today and now, did you think of anything you needed to do that you still haven't done? Have you had that thought more than once? Why? It's a waste of time and energy to keep thinking about something that you make no progress on. And it only adds to your anxieties about what you should be doing and aren't.
It seems that most people let their minds run a lot of the show, especially where the too-much-to-do syndrome is concerned. You've probably given over a lot of your 'stuff,' a lot of your open loops, to an entity on your inner committee that is incapable of dealing with those things effectively the way they are—your mind.
Rule your mind or it will rule you.
The Transformation of 'Stuff'
Here's how I define 'stuff': anything you have allowed into your psychological or physical world that doesn't belong where it is, but for which you haven't yet determined the desired outcome and the next action step. The reason most organizing systems haven't worked for most people is that they haven't yet transformed all the 'stuff' they're trying to organize. As long as it's still 'stuff,' it's not controllable. Most of the to-do lists I have seen over the years (when people had them at all) were merely listings of 'stuff,' not inventories of the resultant real work that needed to be done. They were partial reminders of a lot of things that were unresolved and as yet untranslated into out-comes and actions—that is, the real outlines and details of what the list-makers had to 'do.'