others were children. I feel like this boy could steal, he could be up to all kinds of things. And it got me thinking. Jonathan himself is changing, there’ll be girls and cars and lord knows what-all.”
“Sure there will be, Grandmaw,” Ned said, and got good-naturedly under the bedcovers. I knew how he pictured it: a teenage comedy, harmlessly entertaining, replete with first dates and hippie friends. Perhaps he was right. But I couldn’t see it as a movie, myself. I couldn’t tell him how different it feels when it’s your hour-to-hour experience. I knew that if I tried to, I’d end up sounding just like the mother in the movie: a bird-like, overly dramatic character; the one who doesn’t get the jokes.
“Okay with you if I douse the lights?” he said. “Or are you going to flail away at that book a little longer?”
“No. Turn out the light.”
We settled ourselves and lay side by side, breathing in the darkness. It seemed there should be so much for us to talk about. Perhaps the biggest surprise of married life was its continuing formality, even as you came to know the other’s flesh and habits better than you knew your own. For all that familiarity, we could still seem like two people on a date that was not going particularly well.
“I made the chicken with tarragon tonight,” I said. “You should have seen him gobble it up. You’d have thought he hadn’t eaten in a week.”
“The friend?” Ned said.
“Yes.”
“What’s his name?”
“Bobby.”
Outside, one of the neighbor’s cats yowled. Since Miss Heidegger died, her house had been rented to a succession of three different families, all of whom were prone to noisy, underfed pets and sudden departures. The neighborhood was going down.
“Ned?” I said.
“Mm-hm?”
“Do I look much older to you?”
“You look about sixteen,” he said.
“Well, I’m far from sixteen. Thirty-four used to seem so old. Now it doesn’t seem like anything. But I’ve got a son who’s going to be shaving soon. Who’s going to be keeping secrets and driving away in the car.”
I didn’t know how to tell him in a way he’d understand: I felt myself ceasing to be a main character. I couldn’t say it in just those words. They would not pass through the domestic air of our bedroom.
“Thirty-four is nothing, kiddo,” he said. “Look who you’re talking to. I can hardly
“I know. I’m just vain and foolish.”
I reached over, under the blanket, and stroked his chest. Again, his skin prickled under my hand. He was not accustomed to these attentions from me.
“You look great,” he said. “You’re in the prime of your life.”
“Ned?”
“Uh-huh?”
“I do love you, you know. Lord, how long has it been since I’ve said that?”
“Oh, sweetheart. I love you, too.”
I worked my fingers down along his bicep, petted his forearm. “I’m being mawkish tonight,” I said. “I’m departing from my old stiff-backed ways.”
“You’re not stiff-backed,” he said.
“Not tonight,” I said in an even voice. It was not seductive, but neither was it dry or matronly.
He wrapped his fingers over mine. I’d imagined marriage in one of two ways: either you loved a man and coupled with him happily, or you didn’t. I’d never considered the possibility of loving someone without an accompanying inclination of the flesh.
He cleared his throat. I leaned over to kiss him, and he let himself be kissed with a passivity that was virginal, almost girlish. That touched me, even as his beard stubble scraped against my skin.
“Not tonight,” I said again, and this time I was able to make my voice low and breathy. It seemed a good imitation of lust, one I might catch up with and take as my own if he caressed me as shyly as he permitted my kiss.
“Mmm,” he said, a low growl that rumbled up from deep in his throat. I felt a lightness in the pit of my stomach, a sense of expanding possibility I had not known with him in some time. It could still happen.
Then he kissed me back, raising his head off the pillow and pressing his mouth against mine. I felt the pressure of his teeth. The lightness collapsed inside me, but I did not give up. I answered his kiss, took his bare shoulder in the palm of my hand. It was moist with sweat. I could feel the coarse corkscrew hairs on the palm of my hand. His teeth, only thinly cushioned by his upper lip, bit urgently into my mouth.
And I knew I couldn’t make it. Not that night. I fell out of the scene. My attention left my body and stepped to the far side of the room, where it watched disapprovingly as a man of forty-three roughly kissed his wife, ran moist hands over her aging back and sides. I could have gone through the motions but it would have been only that and nothing more. I’d have suffered through it with the smoldering anger that lies bring.
I disengaged my mouth, planted a series of small kisses along his neck. “Honey,” I whispered, “just hold me a minute. Okay?”
“Sure,” he said easily. “Sure.” To be honest, I think he was relieved.
We lay embracing for a while, until Ned kissed my scalp affectionately and turned away for sleep. We did not sleep in one another’s arms; never had. Soon he was breathing rhythmically. Sleep came easily to Ned. Almost everything did. He had a talent for adjusting his expectations to meet his circumstances.
Perhaps tonight had been a start. Perhaps, the following night, I would manage a little more.
I didn’t want to be the monster of the house—the fretting mother, the ungenerous wife. I made the promises to myself once again, and hardly slept until the windows were blue with the first light.
Jonathan persisted in his fascination with Bobby, who became a fixture at our table. Ned tolerated him, because it was Ned’s nature to go along. He kept a layer of neutral air between his person and the world, so that whatever reached him had been filtered and rarefied.
It was I who kept the accounts.
Bobby seemed to have no other plans. He was perennially available. He never invited Jonathan to his house, which sat all right with me, but still I began to wonder. One night I asked him, “Bobby, what does your father do?”
We were eating dinner, he sopping up the last of his
“He’s a teacher” was the answer. “Not our school. Over at Roosevelt.”
“And your mother?”
“She died. About a year ago.”
He stuffed the bread into his mouth and reached for another piece.
“I’m so sorry,” I said.
“You shouldn’t be sorry,” he told me. “You didn’t even know her.”
“I meant it in a more general way. I meant I’m sorry about your loss.”
Gorging, he looked at me as if I had just spoken in Sanskrit. After a moment he said, “How do you make this sauce?”
“Butter and vinegar,” I said. “Lemon, a little vermouth. Nothing to it, really.”
“I never had sauce like this,” he said. “You made this bread?”
“Bread’s a hobby of mine,” I said. “I just about do it in my sleep.”
“Yow,” he said. Shaking his head in astonishment, he reached for his fourth slice.
After dinner the boys went up to Jonathan’s room. In a moment we heard the stereo, an unfamiliar drumbeat that thumped through the floorboards. Bobby had brought some of his records over.
Ned said, “My God, the kid’s an orphan.”
“He’s not an orphan,” I said. “His father is alive.”
“You know what I mean. That kid’s in a bad way.”