Sing You Home

“They deserve the best parents any kid could have. But I’m smart enough to realize that means someone other than me. That’s why I would want my brother, Reid, to have them. He and Liddy-they’ve taken care of me, they’ve loved me, they’ve believed in me. I’ve changed so much, for the better, because of them. I know I’d be part of the babies’ extended family, and that they would be raised in a Christian, two-parent household. They’d go to Sunday School and to church, and they’d grow up loving God.” I glance up, just like Wade told me to, and I say what we’ve practiced. “Pastor Clive told me that God doesn’t make mistakes, that everything happens for a reason. For a long time, I believed my life was a mistake. That I was a mistake. But now I know I’m not. This was God’s plan all along-to bring me together with Reid and Liddy at the same time my pre-born children needed a home and a family.” I nod, convincing myself. “This is what I was put on this earth to do.”

“Nothing further,” Wade says, and, with an encouraging nod at me, he sits down.

When Angela Moretti starts walking forward, I realize what she reminds me of: some kind of jungle cat. A panther, I guess, with all that black hair. “Mr. Baxter, through the four years of your marriage when you tried naturally to conceive, and the five years of fertility treatments-did you believe Zoe would make a good mother?”

“Of course.”

“What is it today that makes her any less fit to raise a child?”

“She’s living a lifestyle that I think is wrong,” I say.

“It’s different from yours, granted,” the lawyer corrects. “Is the fact that she’s a lesbian the only detriment you see to Zoe being a parent?”

“It’s a pretty big deal. God explains in the Bible that-”

“This is a yes or no question, Mr. Baxter. Is that the only negative thing you have to say about Zoe’s ability to be a good mother?”

“Yes,” I say quietly.

“Isn’t it true, Mr. Baxter, that you still have sperm with which to create more embryos?”

“I don’t know. I have male pattern infertility-which means, if I do, it won’t be easy.”

“Yet you don’t want these embryos. You want to give them away.”

“I want these children to have the best life possible,” I say. “And I know that means having a mother and a father.”

“In fact you were raised by a mother and a father, isn’t that right, Mr. Baxter?”

“Yes.”

“And yet, you still ended up a drunk, divorced loser living in your brother’s guest room.”

I can’t help it, I come halfway out of my witness chair.

“Objection!” Wade says. “Prejudicial!”

“Withdrawn. If this court gives your brother and sister-in-law the embryos,” Angela Moretti asks, “where do you fit in?”

“I… I’m going to be an uncle.”

“Ah. How are you going to be the uncle if you’re the biological father?”

“It’s like an adoption,” I say, flustered. “I mean, it is an adoption. Reid becomes the father and I’m the uncle.”

“So you’re going to give up your parental rights to these children at birth?”

Ben Benjamin said that, no matter what you sign, at any point, grown children might come find you. Confused, I look at him, sitting at our table. “I thought you said I couldn’t ever really do that?”

“You want these embryos to go to a traditional Christian family?” the lawyer says.

“Yes.”

“But instead you’re suggesting that the court give them to a biological father who is called the uncle and is living in the basement of the home of the parents who are raising him. Does that sound like a traditional Christian family, Mr. Baxter?”

“No! I mean, yes…”

“Which is it?”

Her words are like bullets. I wish she’d talk more slowly. I wish she’d give me time to think. “It’s… it’s a family-”

“When you created these embryos with Zoe, you intended at the time to raise these children with her, correct?”

“Yes.”

“Yet Zoe is still ready, willing, and able to take these embryos and raise them as her children. On the other hand, you left.”

“I didn’t leave-”

“Did she file for divorce, or did you?”

“I did. But I left my marriage, not my children-”

“No, those you’re just giving away,” Angela says. “You also testified that between the time when you got divorced and when Zoe came to talk to you about using the embryos, you hadn’t thought about them?”

“I didn’t mean it like that-”

“But that’s what you said. What else have you said that you don’t really mean, Mr. Baxter?” She takes a step toward me. “That you’re fine with giving these embryos to your brother and taking a backseat in their upbringing? That you’re a completely changed man? That you aren’t instigating this entire lawsuit as a means of getting revenge on your ex-wife, whose new relationship makes you feel like less of a man?”

“Objection!” Wade roars, but by that time I am standing, shaking, my face red and a hundred angry answers caught behind my teeth.

“That’s all, Mr. Baxter,” Angela Moretti says, with a smile. “That’s plenty.”

Wade calls for a recess, to let me get control of myself again. As I leave the courtroom, the members of the Westboro church applaud. It makes me feel a little dirty. It’s one thing to love Jesus with all your heart; it’s another to protest outside temples because you believe Jews killed our Savior. “Can you get rid of them?” I whisper to Wade.

“Not a chance,” he murmurs back. “They’re fantastic press. You’ve gotten through the hardest part, Max. Seriously, you know why that lawyer had to get you all riled up? Because she didn’t have anything else to work with. Not the law of this land, and certainly not the law of God.”

He leads me into a tiny room that has a table, two chairs, a coffee-maker, and a microwave. Wade walks over to the microwave and bends down until his face is level with the glossy black door. He smiles so that he can see his teeth, uses his thumb to pick something out from between two of them, and then grins again. “If you think that cross-examination was ruthless, you just sit back and enjoy what I’m planning to do to Zoe.”

I’m not sure why this makes me feel worse.

“Can you do me a favor?” I ask. “Can you get Pastor Clive for me?”

Wade hesitates. “As long as you’re talking to him as your spiritual counselor, and not as a sequestered witness…”

I nod. The last thing I want to do right now is rehash that last hour in court.

Wade leaves, taking all the air with him. I sink into a plastic chair and put my head down between my knees, sure that I’m going to pass out. A few minutes later, the door opens again and I see Pastor Clive’s white linen suit. He drags a chair beside mine. “Let’s pray,” he says, and he bows his head.

His words run over me, catching on all the rough patches and wearing them down. Prayer is like water- something you can’t imagine has the strength or power to do any good, and yet give it time and it can change the lay of the land. “Max, you look like you’re struggling,” he says.

“I just…” Looking away, I shake my head. “I don’t know. Maybe I should just give them to Zoe.”

“What’s making you doubt yourself?” Pastor Clive asks.

“What her lawyer said. That I’m really the father, but I have to be like an uncle. If I’m confused already, how is a kid going to be able to sort it all out?”

He clasps his hands, nodding. “You know, actually, I remember a situation very similar to this one. I can’t believe I haven’t thought of it before.”

“Really?”