were defined, by themselves and all the organs of their culture,
as supreme. We did not know that we had been trained all our
lives to be victims—inferior, submissive, passive objects who
could lay no claim to a discrete individual identity. We did not
know that because we were women our labor would be exploited wherever we worked—in jobs, in political movements
—by men for their own self-aggrandizement. We did not
know that all our hard work in whatever jobs or political
movements would never advance our responsibilities or our
rewards. We did not know that we were there, wherever, to
cook, to do menial labor, to be fucked.
I tell you this now because this is what I remembered
when I knew I would come here to speak tonight. I imagine
that in some ways it is different for you. There is an astounding feminist literature to educate you even if your professors will not. There are feminist philosophers, poets, comedians,
herstorians, and politicians who are creating feminist culture.
There is your own feminist consciousness, which you must
nurture, expand, and deepen at every opportunity.
As of now, however, there is no women’s study program
here. The development of such a program is essential to you as
women. Systematic and rigorous study of woman’s place in
this culture will make it possible for you to understand the
world as it acts on and affects you. Without that study, you
will leave here as I left Bennington— ignorant of what it
means to be a woman in a patriarchal society— that is, in a
society where women are systematically defined as inferior,
where women are systematically despised.
I am here tonight to try to tell you as much as I can about
what you are up against as women in your efforts to live decent, worthwhile, and productive human lives. And that is why I chose tonight to speak about rape which is, though no
contemporary Amerikan male writer will tell you so, the dirtiest four-letter word in the English language. Once you understand what rape is, you will understand the forces that systematically oppress you as women. Once you understand what rape is, you will be able to begin the work of changing the
values and institutions of this patriarchal society so that you
will not be oppressed anymore. Once you understand what
rape is, you will be able to resist all attempts to mystify and
mislead you into believing that the crimes committed against
you as women are trivial, comic, irrelevant. Once you understand what rape is, you will find the resources to take your lives as women seriously and to organize as women against the
persons and institutions which demean and violate you.
The word
means “to steal, seize, or carry away. ”
The first definition of rape in
The second definition, with which you are probably familiar,
defines rape as “the act of physically forcing a woman to
have sexual intercourse. ”
For the moment, I will refer exclusively to the first definition of rape, that is, “the act of seizing and carrying off by force. ”
