we must repudiate, we have developed a heroic commitment
to sustaining and nurturing life.
In our lifetimes, we will not be able to eradicate that first
fact of female existence under patriarchy: we will continue to
be afraid of the punishments which are inevitable as we challenge male supremacy; we will find it hard to root out the masochism which is so deeply embedded within us; we will
suffer ambivalence and conflict, most of us, throughout our
lives as we advance our revolutionary feminist presence.
But, if we are resolute, we will also deepen and expand that
heroic commitment to sustaining and nurturing life. We will
deepen it by creating visionary new forms of human community; we will expand it by including ourselves in it— by learning to value and cherish each other as sisters. We will
renounce all forms of male control and male domination; we
will destroy the institutions and cultural valuations which imprison us in invisibility and victimization; but we will take with us, out of our bitter, bitter past, our passionate identification with the worth of other human lives.
I want to end by saying that we must never betray the
heroic commitment to the worth of human life which is the
source of our courage as women. If we do betray that commitment, we will find ourselves, hands dripping with blood, equal heroes to men at last.
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R ed efin in g N onviolence
. . . and finally I twist my heart round again, so that the
bad is on the outside and the good is on the inside and
keep on trying to find a way of becoming what I would
so like to be, and I could be, if. . . there weren’t any other
people living in the world.
Anne Frank,
August 1, 1944, three days before her arrest
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defined as “the doctrine advocating social and political rights
of women equal to those of men. ” This is one tenet of feminism, and I urge you not to sneer at it, not to deride it as reformist, not to dismiss it with what you might consider left-wing radical purity.
Some of you fought with all your heart and soul for civil
rights for blacks. You understood that to sit at a dirty lunch
counter and eat a rotten hamburger had no revolutionary validity at all— and yet you also understood the indignity, the demeaning indignity, of not being able to do so. And so you, and others like you, laid your lives on the line so that blacks would
not be forced to suffer systematic daily indignities of exclusion
from institutions which, in fact, you did not endorse. In all the
years of the civil rights movement, I never heard a white male
radical say to a black man— “Why do you want to eat there, it’s