must not walk the same streets men do or do the same things or
have the same responsibilities. Precisely because she is good, she
is unfit to do the same things, unfit to make the same decisions, unfit to resolve the same dilemmas, unfit to undertake the same responsibilities, unfit to exercise the same rights. Her nature is
different— this time better but still absolutely different— and
therefore her role must be different. The worshiping attitude, the
spiritual elevation of women that men invoke whenever they suggest that women are finer than they, proposes that women are what men can never be: chaste, good. In fact men are what women can
never be: real moral agents, the bearers of real moral authority and
responsibility. Women are not kept from this moral agency by biology, but by a male social system that puts women above or below simple human choice in m orally demanding situations. The spiritual superiority of women in this model of ludicrous homage
isolates women from the human acts that create meaning, the human choices that create both ethics and history. It separates women out from the chaos and triumph of human responsibility by
giving women a two-dimensional m orality, a stagnant m orality,
one in which what is right and good is predetermined, sex-deter-
mined, biologically determined. The worship of women, devotion
to that in woman which raises man, respect for some moral sensibility allegedly inborn only in women, is the seductive antifeminism, the one that entrances women who have seen through the other kinds. Being worshiped (for most women) is preferable to
being defiled, and being looked up to is better than being walked
on. It is hard for women to refuse the worship of what otherwise is
despised: being female. Woman’s special moral nature has sometimes been used to plead her case: being moral, she w ill be able to upgrade the m orality of the nation if she has the rights of citizenship, the tone of the marketplace if she is employed, the quality of the church if she officiates, the humanism of government if she is
in it; being moral, she w ill be on the side of good. It has also been
argued, more loudly and more often, that her moral nature must
not be contaminated by vulgar responsibilities; that she has a special moral role to play in making the nation and the world good—
she must be in her person the example of good that w ill civilize and
educate men and make the nation moral. One cannot do what men
do—not in government, not in the family, not even in religion, not
anywhere—and be an example of good. “It is the task of the Positive Woman, ” wrote Phyllis Schlafly, “to keep America good. ” 1
Women keep Amerika good by being good. Many women who
hate Schlafly’s politics would agree that women have a special
moral responsibility “to keep America good. ” They have a different political program of good in mind and a different conception of women’s rights, but their conception of a biologically determined morality in which women are better than men is not different. Antifeminism allows for this sentimentality, encourages and exploits this self-indulgence; liberation does not. As Frederick
Douglass wrote over a century ago: “We advocate women’s rights,
not because she is an angel, but because she is a woman, having the
same wants, and being exposed to the same evils as man. ” 2
The woman-superior model of antifeminism also takes a sexual
form, one that is purely pornographic. The central conceit of
woman-hating sex, sex as conquest and possession, dominance and
submission, is that the woman has real power: she is only the apparent victim; she is only seemingly powerless. Her power is in her capacity to provoke erection or lust. Men suffer arousal passively—
against their will or regardless of their will. They then act on what
a woman, or any sex object, has provoked. She provokes what she
wants. When a man has an erection and commits a sexual act because of it or in response to it, he is acting in response to a provocation by a woman, whose nature and intent are well met by his act.
In pornography, the male sexual values that inform and permeate
