Draw a warm bath for your partner and just before you invite them to relax, light the candles.
Don’t forget the details - edible treats, wine, massage oil etc. Forget the phone, tablet, TV, all distractions, just relax!
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Double Utilise
Look around your kitchen, that spatula is used for its intended purpose but how about it being used to administer a serious spanking to a naughty spouse?
Such a large wooden spoon, that smooth rolling pin – couldn’t its use be reversed? Get creative.
Whip cream – top things off with cherries or berries.
Olive oil – add some spice for a sensuous massage.
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The Tease
Get dressed up in a very sexy number. Put your sexy heels on and invite sweetie for a show. Let him know you will have a co-star. Tell him he can only look; no touching (as in a strip bar). To make sure he obeys, tie him to the chair or bed.
Next, show sweetie what turns you on, as you touch yourself, he's sure going crazy thinking of a “threesome”.
Next bring out your co-star, (your sex toy) and wait for his reaction, get up close without touching him while using your toy provocatively and watch him beg to be untied.
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The Challenge
Before you penetrate your partner, start your timer then see how many positions you can get through before orgasm.
After orgasm, stop the clock. Can you top that time in your next session?
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Guess What …?
Blindfold your lover, then using different tools from your sexy chest, as silk scarf, feathers, leather … gently tease and stroke your lover while they try to guess which object.
Give reward or punishment for each answer.
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Sexy Plans
Feeling overwhelmed at work? Take a little break, call or text sweetie and make sexy plans for tonight.
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Flirt
There are so many ways to be a flirt. Start with a sexy hint sent via email first thing in the morning to your lover’s inbox.
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Chill
Just relax tonight, set the mood with your personal soundtrack, candle lights, some wine and keep it going all night long.
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Naughty Pins
Get two clothes pins, some ice cubes and a bit of string.
Run the string through the clothes pins and attach them to your partner’s nipples with the string dangling in the middle.
Once you’re ready, quickly tug the string to make the pins come off.
Then place the ice cubes on their nipples.
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Add Some Spice
Head to the kitchen and prepare cocktails with fresh ginger. Cut a piece of fresh ginger into the shape of a butt plug, make a wide enough base for a handle then peel the skin off.
Let it chill in the fridge for a bit then get some lube, and treat your partner to a cool, tingly, tasty experience!
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The Magic of Candles
Get massage candles then light up and surrender to its decadent and irresistible scents.
Using the warm luxe spa quality natural oils from the candle’s melted wax, invite your partner to the bedroom for a massage while dripping warm wax in places leaving them kissable soft and good enough to eat.
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The Mirror
Position the mirror so that you can watch tonight’s rock n roll sex session.
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Porn Night
Watch a porn flick together then put a spin on it, where you be the star. Take each scene apart, film yourselves and then cast it to your TV. Voila! You are on screen.
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It’s in the Cards
If you don’t have Sex! Cards then you must make your own. Get a deck of regular playing cards and give meaning to each suit, i.e. spades equal penetration, hearts equal kisses and the number equals the time or number of times to do the action.
Therefore, 4 of spades means penetrate your partner, do a sexual position for 4 minutes or change positions 4 times. 2 of hearts means 2 short or long kisses and you chose the body part. Just be creative.
There is so much variety you can play, such as the 3 cards, the half deck, twenty-one, or spread the deck as a dealer does then pick one you are drawn to.
Be even more creative and make Ace, the Master cards.
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Date Night with a Twist
Next date night take your sweetie to a sex toy store. Split up for a few minutes. Let them pick something out while you do the same then meet up pick out something together and head home to try them all out.
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Sip and Draw
Pour some wine. Set up your canvas. Be an artist if only for a night, share a sensual moment with your partner using edible body paint to create your masterpiece using their body as a canvas.
Don’t be surprised if you find yourself tasting, kissing or licking your masterpiece. The paints are designed so you taste its aphrodisiac pheromone enriched flavours which will stimulate your senses and only increase your desire.
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A Bag of Tricks
Take turns writing a fantasy or a sex position on a card or paper that you would like to try.
Add it to a bag or a box. (Fold if you like)
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