At the dot of five o’clock, I place my backpack on my shoulders and start the walk home. It’s my practice to walk home in silence, preferring my quiet thoughts to an audiobook as I wind down for the day. The evening is mild and there are people about, jogging, walking in groups of two or three, or pushing bulky strollers all over the pavement. I even pass a pregnant woman, carrying hand weights and walking briskly. It strikes me as ironic that it is at exactly the moment I pass her that my phone beeps with a text from Rose.
I have made an appointment for you at the family-planning clinic tomorrow morning.
I still haven’t told Rose she is the reason this baby exists, despite plenty of opportunities. It’s not that I think I can keep the baby myself – I understand now that that wouldn’t be what’s best for the baby. But as for deciding to hand him or her over to Rose? That might take a little more time. After hours of discussing my options over the weekend, Rose and I had decided it would be prudent to visit a family-planning clinic. I am aware, of course, that the family-planning clinic is not a place to go to plan one’s family, but rather, a place most people go for the opposite reason – to undo an unplanned family.
‘Just a visit,’ Rose had said, ‘we don’t need to decide anything right away.’
And so, as I turn into my street, I text a reply to Rose: Okay.
When I reach my block of flats, Wally’s van is parked outside, and the back doors are wide open. Wally is sitting in his folding chair with his computer on his lap and, despite the sunshine, his bobble hat is perched high on his head. He grins when he sees me coming.
‘Welcome home,’ he says, reaching for his second fold-up chair, which is tucked into a compartment in the back of the van. He unfolds it and I sink into the canvas seat and, for a glorious moment, close my eyes. I am usually on my feet most of the day but today I feel more tired than usual.
After a deep breath, I say, ‘Do you want children, Wally?’
I open my eyes.
Wally doesn’t seem surprised by the question, but over the course of our short relationship, I have asked him a number of investigative questions as part of (I assume) the normal exploratory process of getting to know someone. Off the top of my head, I can remember asking: ‘At what age did you start walking?’, ‘Do you recall ever believing that you could jump off a roof and fly?’ and ‘Why do you think so many people believe in religion?’ On no occasion has he ever expressed any concern or issue with my questions. Nor does he now. As always, he treats my question with the utmost respect, taking the time to sift through his innermost thoughts before delivering his answer, verdict or opinion.
‘No.’
I feel it in my stomach first, a slight tension, like a gentle punch or squeeze.
‘A number of reasons have led me to this conclusion,’ Wally continues, leaning further back in his seat and winging his elbows behind his head. ‘For one thing, mental illness. Studies have shown there is a strong genetic link, and anxiety is likely handed down through generations. I would feel awful for inflicting that on a helpless kid.’ He frowns off into the distance. ‘Population growth is another of my concerns. People don’t understand how bad an issue overpopulation is. Fishless oceans are predicted by 2048! Our planet just does not have the capacity to provide food, water and adequate shelter for the population numbers we are expecting in the future.’
He shakes his head sadly. ‘Finally, the world is not always a kind place, especially if you don’t fit the stereotypical mould of what it is to be normal. As you know, it’s hard to be a person on the fringes of society. It’s hard for me, even as an arguable success. Imagine how hard it would be for a child, particularly a child who doesn’t go on to enjoy a level of success in his or her given field. I’ve already gone through the hardship of being an outlier. I’m not sure I could do it again as a parent.’
As usual, I am impressed by Wally’s response. It is a good argument, well made. So often in life, people speak in riddles, weighing in on both sides of an argument with pros and cons rather than picking a side. Wally doesn’t do this. It’s one of the reasons I like him so much.
So, that’s it, I think. We agree. A baby is a bad idea.
‘Any other questions?’ he asks cheerfully.
‘That’s it, I think.’
‘Well, I’m just finishing up my work,’ he says. ‘Do you want to sit and read for a bit?’
‘I’m afraid I have some household administration to attend to.’
I think I say it too loudly and brightly, because Wally gives me a puzzled expression. He keeps watching me all the way to my door. I know, because I watch him back. I’m very pleased with myself because I manage to make it all the way into my flat before the tears start to fall.
The next day, I trudge to the bus stop. Rose was supposed to drive me to the family-planning clinic, but she’d texted a few minutes prior to say she has been held up and could I make my own way there? I don’t mind getting the bus, though I
