Our Friend, the Foreskin
Whether or not they get to keep it, every baby boy is born with a foreskin—the small hood of skin that covers the head of the penis. Usually for religious or cultural reasons, parents choose to have their baby’s foreskin surgically removed shortly after birth. This is called circumcision, and it doesn’t reduce penis size, thankfully. In the USA, about 60 percent of newborn males are now circumcised—compared to approximately 15 percent worldwide.
The foreskin actually serves several purposes: it acts like a rolling bearing during intercourse, keeps the head of the penis soft, moist and protected, retains the pheromone sex scent and can give pleasure to both partners during sex. Since foreskins come in varying lengths, some will be visible but most will stretch and
If your lover’s penis has foreskin, remember these simple precautions:
Be tender. Foreskins will glide up and down along the shaft with each stroking motion, but always be careful—it’s thin and delicate and can tear easily. Never grip it too hard, or stretch it too fast or too far.
Go easy. Start pleasing him slowly to avoid sensory overload, since the foreskin is loaded with thousands of nerve endings—and the head of his penis is soft virgin-skin, since it rarely chafes against clothing and zippers.
Wash thoroughly. Cleanliness is ultra important: your partner should glide the skin back and wash underneath with soap and water every day, being sure to rinse out all the soap.
Wipe up! Remind him that if he wipes the head of his penis each time he pees, he’ll stay cleaner and fresher for you.
The Land Down Under
There’s an entire theme park of pleasure right under his penis. And you’ve got the ticket to admission.
The “Balls”
Hanging directly below the base of the penis is the scrotum, and inside are a pair of testicles. Scrotums come in a wide variety of shapes, sizes and textures, and testicles feel like small, round rubber-band balls. All together, this package has generally come to be known as the “balls.”
Testicles stay busy night and day producing sperm—200 to 600 million microscopic gene-carrying swimmers for each ejaculation. Testicles are also responsible for pumping out testosterone—the powerful hormone that gives guys beards, deep voices, muscles, sex drive and erection-ability.
Do you know why balls hang outside the body? To keep them cooler and at the perfect temperature for creating sperm. That’s why balls tuck themselves snug into the body when it’s cold outside. And have you ever noticed that one ball always hangs lower than the other? This keeps them from bumping together when he walks or crosses his legs. Mother Nature thinks of everything!
Expert Ball Handling
With every guy, there’s a fine line between erotic and psychotic when you’re playing with his balls. Cross that line, and you’ll know about it.
Your best bet is to treat his balls like they’re a pair of eggs. Very very delicate eggs. Then you can start getting more playful. Caress them slowly and gently. Listen to his moaning. Read his body language. Be careful not to squeeze too hard or tug his pubic hair. I’ll show you plenty of fun ballplay ideas later in this book that’ll make you the best lover ever!
How sensitive are his balls? Here’s an easy way to tell how he likes his balls fondled: ask him to squeeze your breasts with the same pressure he’d like you to apply to his balls. Now you know!
Touch the Taint
Ask a guy to show you his perineum, and he’ll look at you funny. Ask him to show you his taint, and he’ll still look at you funny, but he’ll probably know what you mean.
Taint is slang for perineum, the flat stretch of skin between the testicles and the anus. Rich in nerve
