ZetaTalk: Being Human

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ZetaTalk: Self Respect

Note: written by Jul 15, 1995

Self respect is the forerunner of respect for others, and in this regard respect for one's parents and origin is important.

Unless one views the self as worthwhile, with potential, deserving of admiration and concern and on an equal footing

overall with others, one cannot truly give the same treatment to others. Why is this so? Why is the adage to love

oneself important?

Throughout the life-span of an entity, and we are speaking here of the indestructible soul, the entity weighs itself

against others. Consciousness begins this way, but as the others in the vicinity are also young and struggling, self

respect or viewing the self to be as worthy as others is rather natural. Time passes, and on a 3rd Density world growth

rates differ. Some entities advance in their spiritual lessons, take leadership, gain wisdom and knowledge, and the

spread widens as time passes. Should the laggardly entity begin to view itself as falling behind, this takes up all its

concentration and falling behind increases due to neglect. This is not a desirable situation. In fact, all are equal, as the laggard may surge ahead at a later time. Better to put comparisons behind, and concentrate on the important issues, the

lessons. Therefore, love yourself and your family and have self respect, as all are truly equal.

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ZetaTalk: Spanking

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ZetaTalk: Spanking

Note: written on Dec 15, 1996

A frequent argument among those asserting to be child rearing experts is whether to coddle or punish the child,

whether to allow the child to explore his or her world without any restrictions or to limit their scope by drawing

boundaries and borders everywhere, whether to express consequences as a long serious discussion with the child or the

withdrawal of food or privileges or even physical punishment such as spanking. Should children be spanked?

Advocates of spanking point out that the technique works. They say the child comes into line, may smart for a moment or two and sulk a bit, but then understands clearly where the limits and boundaries are drawn and thereafter has a more

peaceful life. Well, of course, the parent's life has become more peaceful, but this is hardly the case for the child. The child’s turmoil has gone underground, simmering and roiling within the child, who has suddenly lost confidence that

its parents understand anything at all about what the child is dealing with. Reaching for a cookie results in a burst of

violence from the mother, but doesn’t the father reach eagerly for his beer and popcorn when watching the game? The

child does not associate concepts of healthy food and a growing body with this action. The child is hardly at peace as a result of this spanking, he is in shock.

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ZetaTalk: Missing Children

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ZetaTalk: Missing Children

Note: written on Aug 15, 2001

Babies snatched when their mothers are not looking, or from their beds; young children last seen out playing the yard,

then gone; the child sent to the store, not seen again. Where do they go, and is there something beyond the usual

human agendas at play here?

Babies

Babies are found, often, in the arms at homes of couples without hope of bearing their own.

Adoption agencies, especially in these times when human fertility is sinking because of PCB’s and

their feminizing influence on the male reproductive system, have more eager parents than babies. A

black market system sprang up to fill that void, as the funds paid to a snatcher are less than the

formal adoption system would require, and so much quicker! Parents in good physical health, with

good intelligence as demonstrated by their position in life, are most likely to be looked at for babies

to be snatched. But as these parent are also likely to be watchful, they are less likely hit with an

abduction. Cute babies, appealing and quick to smile, of a good nature and not given to screaming

when touched, are the next likely candidates. Parent who find their babies snatched should at least

comfort themselves that the infant is desired, and treated as a treasure, not trashed.

Youngsters

Young children are sometimes identified as having been taken by pedophiles, or sold into the child-

porn trade. More often, most often in fact, they are taken as companions by adults who have a hard

time getting other adults to take them seriously. These adults, children themselves in many ways,

escape with what they assume to be a playmate, but after the child grows into the teens, find

themselves once again abandoned. By then the snatched child, now a teen, has lost his moorings,

and makes his way in the world, often via the school system where he has made friends among his

peers. Rooming in with a friend, getting a job via these connections, and onto higher education if

desired by the school loans made available to those without funds or apparent family. These teens

have been introduced into school as without family, being raised by a family friend, in lower class

neighborhoods, so digging into the background of the teenager is not given a thought.

Teenagers

Teens go missing and the authorities consider two agendas - the teen was abducted, or the teen ran

away from home. The latter is the assumption, from the start, due to the frequency that teens even

from stable and even-handed homes take their leave during the emotional separation that the teens

envelope. The teens are often found with friends, or return home after a satisfactory time period has

passed and the teen is sure the parent have been put into agony, and in a small minority of cases are