ZetaTalk: Worlds

stopped.

So how do we, the Service-to-Other Zetas, differ? All children are given access to all learning experiences, equally.

Should they indicate difficulty with some material, or confusion, their request for assistance is met without hesitation.

The males, for instance, do not have their questions answered while the females find they are expected to be seen but not heard from. When our little girls well up with ideas, they are given the opportunity to present on an equal basis with our little boys, nor are they cut-off in mid sentence by male teachers or fellow students, as little girls in human society find they are, daily. In short, we simply threat little boys and girls as true equals, so that when they arrive at the point where they can contribute to Zetan society, they are prepared to make their decision about the roles they would like to fill. In the Service-to-Other society, roles are self chosen, in response to the needs noted or expressed by others.

So, imagine this scenario: Zetan youngsters, having sopped up all the learning their curious minds can hold, and

having practiced various roles during play and school projects, by choice, now spend a portion of their time in the

community. They attend one of the community meetings that occur regularly or more often if need arises. They hear

discussion on a problem the adults are dealing with. A youngster, as the adults, is free to volunteer his or her services.

If the others feel, in their hearts and minds, that the youngster would be overwhelmed in this role, this is, in essence, another problem to be addressed. Perhaps a classmate, or one of the adults, offers to assist the young volunteer, and in this regard is truly just a second set of hands or a backup in case of failure. The volunteer is allowed to proceed, even if inexperienced. All are in Service-to-Others, and none wishes to harm the community, so the volunteer is not

assumed to be operating out of self interest. Most often, in such situations, we are pleasantly surprised. On occasion the youngster needs some assistance. And when there is failure, we wait for the youngster to request a review, so they may learn from the failure, before comments are offered.

So if the Zetas find that their sexes choose different roles, how do these roles by sex come about? In the same way that roles by height, or physical or mental acuity, or past experiences and differing knowledgebase, or desire to learn in a particular area, or empathy with certain experiences affect role choices. In no other way.

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ZetaTalk: Zeta Marriage

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ZetaTalk: Zeta Marriage

Note: written Jul 15, 1995.

The Zeta do not marry in the same sense that humans do. We, in the Service-to-Others, do not have an institution such as marriage, which is in our opinion a form of bondage, however willingly it may be entered into. If one examines the human institution of marriage for its true purposes, and how those purposes are accomplished in our society, one can see why we are not in need of such an institution. Caring for children, the most often defended rationale for marriage, does not need to be mandated, as all children are cared for by all, and enthusiastically. Compensating the dependent partner, usually the wife, who may give decades of devotion only to be cast aside for a younger model, is another

rationale. In our society, no members need fear being rejected. Maintenance is guaranteed, and at the same level for all.

Sexual ownership, the complete possession of the object, is seldom acknowledged as the reason for the marriage rites, but especially in highly conservative societies women are brokered openly. This has no parallel in our society, where ownership of the other does not exist.

The institution of marriage is also relied upon in human society so responsibilities can be parsed out. Uncle Joe has nowhere to go, is now blind and deaf, so the family decides he should move in with his niece as she has married well and lives in a large house with lots of room. Her husband may protest, but as he is stuck in the marriage he will

eventually give in to stop the guilt trips. Again, in our society, Uncle Joe would not have been desperate in the first place. And finally, humans undergo the ritual and wear the rings so that others will understand fully that they desire to be together. Let there be no confusion, they are bonded. Just look at the ring finger, where they are making their

statement.

In our society each Zeta is free, and where there is much bonding there is no bondage. Where humans might consider

this a return to the 60's, where free love was the cry and promiscuity the rule, the opposite in fact happens. When not constrained by rules, and given the focus of true service to others, promiscuity does not emerge. Promiscuity most

often is a reaction to oppression. Should one doubt this, just check out a group of Catholic boys out from under the nun's thumb. Lock up the girls! Not having the rules, we skip the resentment and rebellion. Casual or promiscuous sex can also happen in human society because the sex drive is strong and the individual focused on the self. After all,

masturbation can eliminate the itch, so why pass around infection and create unwanted pregnancies if one is thinking about the other? Sexual concourse should be considerate and not undertaken in haste, and is most fulfilling in this

context. Therefore, where we have less bondage, we have more true bonding. And yes, the Zetas do have sex, and pair, even while not procreating through sex at this time.

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ZetaTalk: Reptilian Control

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ZetaTalk: Reptilian Control

Note: written by Jul 15, 1995.

Regarding whether the Zetas, of either orientation, are under the direction of another race, like the Reptilians. This is altogether untrue. This rumor was started due to the characteristics of human society, and the assumptions made as a parallel. In human societies, one race or the other is dominant. The black race is almost invariable subservient. The female of the race is most certainly subservient, even where the black race is accused of being matriarchal. One need only look to Africa, where women bear their young without support from the strutting men, to see their position in the black cultures. The white races are supreme, worldwide. Stratification exists.

Thus, humans assume the same in races from what they term outer space, as though inner space were one place and

outer space another. Is not outer space a collection of many others? The Zeta, of neither orientation, have any

association with alien species humans might term Reptilian. This rumor came about because of close proximity on

encounters, where Service-to-Self groups were in close proximity to each other, and also because the Zetas give the

appearance of being contained and controlled. In humans, this behavior would indicate subservience.

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