91. “nowhere is reconciliation more desperately”: Queen Elizabeth II Christmas Broadcast, Dec. 25, 1977, Official Website of the British Monarchy.
92. He was the first baby in the royal family:
93. “The Queen knew Martin would cry”: Gay Charteris interview.
94. “he was still around”: Shawcross,
95. “Martin, thank you for a lifetime”: Gay Charteris interview.
THIRTEEN: Iron Lady and English Rose
1. “conversation flowed easily”:
2. their talk over the next hour might touch: Longford,
3. “weighs up”: Ibid., p. 349.
4. One week she memorably took him for a stroll: Shawcross,
5. “What one gets … is friendliness”: Longford,
6. “poor old Jim Callaghan”: Wyatt, Vol. 2, p. 36.
7. “the last shreds of prejudice”: Shawcross,
8. “What do you think about Margaret Thatcher”: Ian Balding interview.
9. “the eternal scholarship girl”: Johnson, p. 263.
10. “The Queen found that irritating”: Confidential source.
11. “The agenda included major topical”: Charles Powell interview.
12. “She chatted with us”: Confidential interview.
13. “She seemed to come back in a cheerful”: Charles Powell interview. 290 One exception was the time: Morrow, p. 167.
14. “Mrs. Thatcher would have thought it impudent”: Pimlott, pp. 460–61.
15. Whenever the Thatchers came: Monica Tandy tour of Windsor Castle; Longford,
16. “was reserved but she could give you”: Turner, pp. 48–49.
17. “Would you like to order, sir?”:
18. “The Queen is the mother of the country”: James Lees-Milne,
19. “No one could curtsy lower”: Charles Powell interview.
20. “I would set up … a hereditary monarchy”: Longford,
21. “out of loyalty”: Charles Powell interview.
22. “The hills? … The hills? She walks on the road!”: Confidential interview.
23. “The Queen finessed it”: Ibid.
24. she let her manners slip and kept her elbows: Morrow, pp. 147–48.
25. “quartering the room”: Paxman, p. 315.
26. “an enormous role in calming everything”: Shawcross,
27. “talked to Mrs. Thatcher and to Kaunda”: Pimlott, p. 468.
28. Whenever she and Philip are having lunch: Confidential interview.
29. “his closest confidant”: Dimbleby, p. 213.
30. “someone who showed enormous affection”: Ibid., p. 324.
31. The Queen called the hospital: Timothy Knatchbull,
32. “That kind of private person”: Pamela Hicks interview.
33. “A dog isn’t important”: Ibid.
34. “Please sit with me”: Ibid.
35. “Ma’am, would you like to go upstairs?”: Timothy Knatchbull interview.
36. “striding down the corridor”: Knatchbull, p. 176.
37. “She was in almost unstoppable mothering mode”: Ibid.
38. “She was caring and sensitive and intuitive”: Timothy Knatchbull interview.
39. “I fear it will take me”: Dimbleby, p. 324. 296 she said the Irish were pigs: Wilson, p. 259.
40. “She had all the feelings”: Timothy Knatchbull interview.
41. One unlikely source of consolation: Smith, p. 87.
42. “German family”:
43. “By the time we reached Australia”: Pamela Hicks interview.
44. “a good age for a man”:
45. “easy and open manner”: Dimbleby, p. 338.
46. “LADY DI IS THE NEW GIRL”:
47. “fallen in love with an idea”: Dimbleby, p. 341.
48. “Prince Philip and the Queen felt responsible”: Pamela Hicks interview.
49. “There is a difference”: Confidential interview.
50. “If I’d said to him”: Dimbleby, p. 340.
51. “intent to alarm”: Morrow, p. 131.
52. sitting calmly when a ball crashed: Jean Carnarvon interview.
53. “I never saw her scared”: Turner, p. 46.
54. “You know why you’re there”: Malcolm Ross interview.
55. “Left leg straight!”: Ibid.
56. “In every pub and club”: Dewar, ed., p. 17.
57. A poll in July 1981: Longford,
58. The first lady had met Charles: Prince Charles to Nancy Reagan, June 6, 2004, The Ronald Reagan Presidential Foundation & Library.
59. Nancy Reagan also endeared: Henderson, pp. 395–97.
60. “I have fallen in love”: Mary Henderson to Nancy Reagan, May 3, 1981, Reagan Library.
61. “in our best bib and tucker”: Josephine Louis interview.
62. “She was wonderful that day”: Ibid.
63. “little house in Windsor Great Park!”: Queen Elizabeth the Queen Mother to Nancy Reagan, July 28, 1981, Reagan Library.
64. The atmosphere was exultant: BBC, “On This Day,” July 29, 1981, news.bbc.co.uk/onthisday.
65. “grow into it”:
66. It was a high-spirited occasion: Josephine Louis interview; Nicholas Haslam interview; confidential interview.
67. “Oh Philip, do look!”: Morrow, p. 7.
68. “I’d love to stay and dance”: Ibid.
69. “The Queen was so mad”: Josephine Louis interview.
70. she rapidly lost weight: Andrew Morton,
71. down to a mere 110 pounds: Smith, p. 145.
72. “It was just impossible”: Paxman, p. 274.
73. “other side … jolly girl”: Dimbleby, p. 345.
74. Charles had Diana flown: Smith, p. 151.
75. “the Queen is the least self-absorbed”: Confidential interview.
76. “Regardless of how rude Princess Margaret”: Confidential interview.
77. “The Queen was always kind”: Lucia Flecha de Lima interview (Nov. 10, 1997).
78. “terrified”:
79. “the briskest, deepest, most correct curtsy”: Morrow, p. 40.
80. Although Diana wrote letters of gratitude: Jonathan Dimbleby interview (Dec. 10, 1997).
81. “She is pretty, soft and amusing”: Confidential interview.
82. “betrayed”: Confidential interview.