Creative
Open-minded
Tactful
Decisive
Outgoing
Thorough
Deliberate
Outstanding
Unique
Dependable/have dependability
Patient
Unusual
Penetrating
Versatile
Diligent
Perceptive
Vigorous
Diplomatic
Persevering
You need to flesh out your skill-description for each of your six or more favorite skills so that you are able to describe each of your talents or skills with more than just a one-word verb or gerund, like organizing.
Let’s take organizing as our example. You tell us proudly: “I’m good at organizing.” That’s a fine start at defining your skills, but unfortunately it doesn’t yet tell us much. Organizing WHAT? People, as at a party? Nuts and bolts, as on a workbench? Or lots of information, as on a computer? These are three entirely different skills. The one word
So, please flesh out each of your favorite transferable skills with an object—some kind of Data/Information, or some kind of People, or some kind of Thing, and then add an adverb or adjective, too.
Why adjectives? Well, “I’m good at organizing information painstakingly and logically” and “I’m good at organizing information in a flash, by intuition,” are two entirely different skills. The difference between them is spelled out not in the verb, nor in the object, but in the adjectival or adverbial phrase there at the end. So, expand each definition of your six or more favorite skills, in the fashion I have just described.
When you are face-to-face with a person-who-has-the-power-to-hire-you, you want to be able to explain what makes you different from nineteen other people who can basically do the same thing that you can do. It is often the adjective or adverb that will save your life, during that explanation.
A Picture Is Worth a Thousand Words
When you have your top favorite skills, and

Informational Interviewing, Step 1:
GIVING YOUR FLOWER A NAME
Well you’re done with The Flower. Now what?
Put that sheet on a wall, or on the door of your refrigerator. And there you have it: a simple picture (as it were) of You.
And now what should happen? Many of you will look at your completed Flower Diagram, and you won’t have
1. First, look at your Flower Diagram, and from the center petal choose your three to five most
2. Then, look at your Flower Diagram and write down your three favorite special knowledges (interests, or favorite fields, or Fields of Fascination—whatever you want to call them).
3. Now, take both these notes, and show them to at least five friends, family members, or professionals whom you know. Yes, we’re back to our old friend, Informational Interviewing—interviewing people solely to get information (see chapter 7).
4. Jot down
5. After you have finished talking to them, you want to go home and look at all these notes. Anything helpful or valuable here? If not, if none of it looks valuable, then set it aside, and go talk to five more of your friends, acquaintances, or people you know in the business world or nonprofit sector. Repeat, as necessary.
6. When you finally have some worthwhile suggestions, sit down, look over their combined suggestions, and ask yourself some questions.
As you will recall, skills usually point toward a job-title or job-level, while interests or special knowledges usually point toward a career field. So, you want to ask them, in the case of your skills,
Then ask them, in the case of your favorite special knowledges,
• First, you want to look at what these friends suggested about your skills: what
1. Executive, Administrative, and Managerial Occupations
2. Engineers, Surveyors, and Architects
3. Natural Scientists and Mathematicians
4. Social Scientists, Social Workers, Religious Workers, and Lawyers
5. Teachers, Counselors, Librarians, and Archivists
6. Health Diagnosing and Treating Practitioners
7. Registered Nurses, Pharmacists, Dieticians, Therapists, and Physician Assistants
8. Health Technologists and Technicians
9. Technologists and Technicians in Other Fields: Computer Specialists, Programmers, Information Technicians, Information Specialists, etc.
10. Writers, Artists, Digital Artists, and Entertainers
11. Marketing and Sales Occupations
12. Administrative Support Occupations, including Clerical
13. Service Occupations
14. Agricultural, Forestry, and Fishing Occupations
15. Mechanics and Repairers
16. Construction and Extractive Occupations