expressed, over time. Everything escalates. D idn’t matter
how brilliant m y joints were once he started using a chellum, a
Turkish pipe for hash, rare in Europe, not used because you,
had to be so fucking aggressive to use it, the hashish and
tobacco went in it, it was like a funnel, and you pulled it fast
and hard into your lungs through a kind o f wind tunnel made
by your hands clasped at the bottom o f the funnel and the
bitter smoke hit your lungs with a burning punch, with the
force o f an explosion, and your bloodstream was oxygenated
with hash and nicotine. I didn’t like the chellum but I had to do
it, keeping up with Mr. Jones as it were. C an’t find yourself
being too delicate, too demure, unable to take the violence o f
the hit; not if you are Mrs. Jones; have to run
the boy runs without you, he don’t slow down to wait, he
don’t say, Andrea doesn’t like this, she likes that, so let’s do
that. Same with sex. He pushes you down and does it. Y ou
solicit his personal recognition. Y ou ask his indulgence. Y ou
beg: remember me; me. It changes slow. He tied me up to fuck
me more and more; tied me up to this nice little modern brass
bed we got, we had a little money; he had from the beginning,
in rented rooms, on mattresses, on floors, it doesn’t take
much, but it was only sometimes; now he tied me up to fuck
me invariably and I was bored, tired and bored, irritated and
bored; but he wanted it which had to mean he needed it and I
want him to do what he needs, I think every man should have
what he needs, I think if he has it maybe he w on ’t need it in a
bad w ay; and I love him— not in love but I love him;
with him because it’s him; him; I want him to want me; me. I
said no or not now or let’s just make love and don’t tie me up,
we don’t need it, or even I don’t want it now, I don’t like it, or
trying to say that I didn’t want to anymore and it had to matter
to him that I didn’t want to because this is me; me. I said in all
kindness and with all tenderness that I didn’t want to but he
did want to and so we did because it was easier to than not to
and it wasn’t like we hadn’t before so it wasn’t like I had any
grounds for saying no or any right and it was so fucking dull,
and stupid and I’d want it to be over and I’d wait for it to be
over, especially to be untied; I learned how to wait, not just
when he was doing things to me but after when he’d leave me
there while he’d putter around or watch television or do
something, I’d never know what exactly. I’d get bad pains in
my side from the fucking or really from every time he tied me
to fuck me and I was so fucking bored it was like being back on
the streets but still easier frankly, just awful in some tedious
w ay: when will he be done, when’s he going, when’s it going
to be over. I know I’m saying I was bored, not morally