the ones I struggled for mean nothing, I looked for
it real, was it Nazis, could it be; how much did it hurt; what
did it signify; I wanted to say, it destroys freedom, it destroys
love, I want freedom, I want love, freedom first, freedom
now; rape rape rape; fucking 0; I found the word, it’s the right
word; fucking 0; no one cares; enough to stop them; stop
them. I will never have easy words; at my fingertips as they
say; but I will stake m y life on these words: Stop them. They
don’t stop themselves, do they? I’m Andrea, which means
manhood, but I do not rape; it is possible to be manly in your
heart, which I have always been, and not rape, I’ve always
liked girls, I’ve made love with many, I’ve never forced
anyone, don’t tell me you can’t, save it for them that don’t
know what it’s like, being with a girl. I was born in 1946, after
Auschwitz, after the bomb, I never wanted to kill, I had an
abhorrence for killing but it was raped from me, raped from
m y brain; obliterated, like freedom. I’m a veteran o f Birkenau
and Massada and deep throat, uncounted rapes, thousands o f
men, I’m twenty-seven, I don’t sleep. They leave the shell for
reasons o f their own. I have no fear o f any kind, they fucked it
out o f me some time ago, it’s neither here nor there, not good
or bad, except girls without fear scare them. I was born in
Camden, on M ickle Street, down from where Walt Whitman
lived, the great gray poet, a visionary, a prophet o f love; and I
loved, according to his poems. I was poor, I never shied away
from life, and I loved. I had a vision too, like his, but I will
never write a poem like his, a song o f myself, I count the
multitudes and so on, the multitudes passed on top o f me,
sticking it in, I lost count. For the record, Walt was wrong;
only a girl had a chance in hell o f being right. A lot o f men on
the B o w ery resemble Walt; huge, hairy types; I visit him
often. It was the end o f April, still cold, a brilliant, lucid cold.
Y ou could feel summer edging its w ay north. Y ou could smell
spring coming. Y ou would sing; if your throat wasn’t ripped.
Y ou r heart would rise, happy; if you wasn’t raped; in
perpetuity. I went out; at night; to smash a man’s face in; I
declared war. M y
told there are many more; girls named courage who are ready
to kill.
It is, o f course, tiresome to dwell on sexual abuse. It is also
simple-minded. The keys to a woman’s life are buried in a
context that does not yield its meanings easily to an observer not
sensitive to the hidden shadings, the subtle dynamics, o f a self
that is partly obscured, partly lost, yet still self-determining, still
agentic— willful, responsible, indeed, even wanton. We are