spectrum of insult. Lesbians, intellectuals, and uppity women are
hated for their presumption, their arrogance, their masculine ambition. Prudes, spinsters, and celibates may not want to be like men but they seem able to live without them; so they are treated with
contempt and disdain. Sluts, “nymphos, ” and tarts are hated because they are cheap, not expensive, and because they are their sex raw or sex itself. These epithets (often in ruder form) directed
against a woman are intended to malign her own relationship to her
own gender or to sexuality as men define and enforce it. The epithets are situational: chosen and applied not to show what she is in her essential self but to intimidate her in a particular situation. For
instance, if she does not want sex, she may be called a prude or a
dyke, and after she has had sex, she may be called—by the very
same observer—a slut. Expressing ideas a man does not like, she
may be a slut or a dyke or a prude—depending on how any given
man assesses her vulnerability to insult or depending on the man’s
own obsessional interest in prudes or sluts or dykes. Antifeminism
is in the reduction of a woman to perceptions of her sexuality or
relation to men or male sexuality; and antifeminism is in the ascribing of a specific masculine integrity to acts usually reserved for men— acts like making love with women or w riting books or w alking down the street without apology or speaking with authority.
Ideas and acts uphold the potency and cultural vigor of these epithets, which reflect real values— how women are disdained, w h y, what women do wrong and get punished for. The breaking down
of women into the insults used to describe women, the use of these
insults to describe or intim idate or discredit, granting validity to
these critiques of a female’s posture, pose, stance, attitude, or act,
are all expressions of both antifeminism and woman hating. When
a woman expresses an opinion— about anything— and the response
is to undermine perceptions of or question her sexuality, sexual
identity, fem ininity, relations with men, the response can be identified without further analysis as im plicitly antifeminist and woman-hating. It can and should be exposed as such. Antifeminism as a strategy for subverting what credibility women can muster runs the gam ut from subtle innuendoes to overt hostility, all of which is designed to remind the woman herself and those listening
to her that she is, after all, only a woman— and a defective one at
that. The woman hating im plicit in the antifeminism is designed to
humiliate the woman so that she feels the humiliation and so that
those listening can see her being humiliated and feeling it. Raising
and m anipulating antagonistic feelings toward a woman because
she is a woman, using her sex and sexuality, reminding her and
those around her of what she
raising and m anipulating racist antagonisms against a black in a
white-supremacist context. The response to the underlining of her
sex so as to impugn her credibility should not rest on whether or
not one agrees with the woman about whatever issue; the response
should be a response to the antifeminism and misogyny being used
against her. It is w ay past time to recognize, to say, to confront,
the fact that women are isolated and destroyed by the ways in
which epithets discredit them. The epithets are symbolic reminders of what she is reduced to, not human, woman, that lower thing; the epithets are accusations that remind the accused of her
place as a woman and some alleged violation of its boundaries.
Women fear epithets because they are warnings, threats, proof that
a woman has made a wrong step in her relationship to the world
around her, proof that a man or men have noticed her and are