Four are the attributes of the true gentleman: a smiling face, a liberal hand, sweetness of speech, and condescension.
Men of family would not tarnish their name even for the sake of tens of millions.
Behold the men of ancient family: they give not up their liberality even when their means of munificence are diminished.
Behold the men who are anxious to keep pure the honourable traditions of their family: they will never take to deceit nor descend to ignoble deeds.
The fault of a man of noble family will show conspicuously even as the spot in the body of the moon.
If rudeness of speech showeth itself in a man coming of a good family, people would even suspect the legitimacy of his descent.
The nature of a soil is known by the seedling that groweth therein: even so is the family of a man known by the words that come out of his mouth.
If thou desire virtue, thou must cultivate the sense of shame: and if thou want to honour thy family, thou must be respectful unto all.
XCVII
Honour
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Forbear from those things that would lower thee, even though they should be indispensable for the very preservation of thy life.
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Behold the men that desire to leave an honoured name behind them: they will not do that which is not right even for the sake of glory.
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Cultivate modesty in the day of prosperity: but in the day of thy decline hold fast to thy dignity.
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Behold the men that have soiled a name that was honourable: they are even as the locks of hair that have been shaven off the head and thrown away.
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Even men who are grand as a mountain will look small if they do an ignoble thing, though it should be only of the measure of a kunri seed.
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It bringeth not glory, neither doth it open the way unto heaven: why then doth a man try to live by fawning on men that despise him?
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It is better for a man to meet his doom at once without any ado than to maintain himself by hanging on to those that scorn him.
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Is the skin immortal, that men desire to save it even at the cost of honour?
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The kavarima giveth up its life when it loseth its wool: there are men who are as sensitive and they put an end to their lives when they cannot save their honour.
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Behold the men of honour who refuse to outlive their good name: the world will join its hands and worship at the altar of their glory.
XCVIII
Greatness
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An aspiration for noble achievement, that is what is called greatness: and littleness is the thought that sayeth, I shall live without it.
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The manner of birth is the same for all men: but their reputations vary because they differ in the lives that they lead.
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Even if they are noble, those that are not noble are not noble; and even if they are lowborn, those that are not low are not low.
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Even as chastity in a woman, greatness can be maintained only by being true to one’s own self.
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Those that are great have the puissance to employ adequate means and achieve things that are impossible for others.
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It is not in the grain of small men to revere the great and earn their good will and favour.
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If fortune falleth to the lot of the little-minded their insolence will know no bounds.
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Greatness is ever unpretending and modest: but littleness vaunteth its merits before all the world.
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Greatness showeth condescension unto all: but littleness is the very acme of insolence.
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Greatness is always for screening the infirmities of others: but littleness will talk nothing but scandal.
XCIX
Worth
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Behold the men that know their duties and want to cultivate worth in themselves: everything that is good will be a duty in their eyes.
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The comeliness of the worthy is the comeliness of their character: the comeliness of the body addeth nothing to their comeliness.
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Love to all, sensibility to shame, complaisance, indulgence to the faults of others, and truthfulness, these five are the pillars that support the edifice of a noble character.
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The virtue of the saint is non-killing: and the virtue of the worthy man is the abstaining from scandalous speech.
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It is humility that is the strength of the strong: and that is also the armour of the man of worth against his foes.
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What is the touchstone of worth? It is the acknowledgement of superiority when it is found even in men who are otherwise one’s inferiors.
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Where is the superiority of the worthy man if he doth not do good even unto those that work him injury?
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Poverty is no disgrace to a man if he possesseth the wealth that is called character.
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Behold the men that would not swerve from the path of rectitude even if all else should change in a general convulsion: they will be called the very palladium of worth.
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Verily even the earth itself will not be able to support the burden of human life if the worthy were to fall from their worth.
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Courteousness
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Courteousness, they say, cometh easily to those who receive all men with open arms.
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Courteousness cometh of the combination of the two virtues of kindness and good-breeding.
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Men are likened to each other not by the cut of their personal appearance, but by the similarity of their manners.
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Behold the men who love justice and righteousness, and who are of a helpful disposition: the world setteth a high value on their manners.
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Disparaging words pain a man even when uttered only in jest: the well-bred therefore are never discourteous even to their foes.
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The world goeth on smoothly because of the men of good-breeding: verily, but for them all this harmony would be dead and buried in the dust.
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Though they are sharp as files, the men that are lacking in good manners are no better than mere wooden stocks.
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Discourtesy is unbecoming in a man, even were it only against men who are unfriendly and unjust.
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Behold the men