begin massaging. Before you resume your world-class blowjob, say, “It would make me so hot to play around back here.”
No objections? Then begin seducing his anus by running your fingers all around the area, slowly circling his anus. Lightly press one lubed fingertip onto his anus, while you continue pleasuring his penis. Then rub in circular motions, slowly brushing your finger around its outer edges, then rock back and forth in the center.
Did your soft, warm fingertip drive him crazy? Would a little more of your finger drive him even crazier? Then try this…
With your hot breath on his excited penis, and your lubed fingertip nestled against his anus, ask him seductively if he’d like a little more of you inside.
Buttplay boosters. Always stimulate his penis with a primo hand- or blowjob while you’re playing with his butt. It’ll make the whole experience feel better, as you blend the euphoric sensations of buttplay with the erotic sensations of the blowjob. If he was apprehensive about it beforehand, this will help calm his fears.
Once you’re inside about an inch, stay perfectly still so he can get used to this new erotic sensation. Keep stroking his penis. Then, ever so slowly, move in a little , further, curving your finger with the natural curve of his canal, and begin in-‘n-out pleasure. Remember: play with his penis at all times during buttplay. Proceed with your first-class blowjob, or switch to a primo handjob!
Now he’s ready for the best in buttplay.
Now start making slow, gentle come hither-type curling motions with your finger—just like you’re ticking him under his chin. Then focus on his reactions, and ask whether the motion would feel better harder, softer, faster or slower. You’ll know you’ve got it right when his legs spread wider, his breathing gets faster, he’s riding your finger —and if he’s a vocal guy, he starts vocalizing.
Rimming
What happens when he feels the sensation of the tip of your tongue on the rim of his anus? Nirvana!
After plenty of heated foreplay, slide your tongue in between his butt-cheeks and get creative! Ravish him by going round ’n round, and keep stimulating him by flicking soft and slow, or lick him with your full-on tongue.Try slight probing with the very tip, pressing into him like you’re ringing a doorbell. Don’t forget to pleasure him with your hand, too. For a real thrill, spread his cheeks wide apart for uninhibited access.
Here’s how to perform world-class analingus with all the sensations and none of the risk! Slip into the kitchen and tear off a large piece of plastic wrap. Generously lube up his anus, and place the wrap across his bottom, pressing a single layer into his crevice. Now let your tongue roam free. If you don’t care for the non-taste of the wrap, you can coat the tongue side with something tastier, like fruit-flavored lube. You can also use dental dams (see Appendix).
Butt Pleasure Toys
In addition to tried-and-true dildos and vibrators, consider these other terrific toys designed especially for the butt. They come in tiny shapes and sizes (even a lifelike finger), all the way to XXX-large! Start small, and move up in size over time.
Plugs
Put ‘em in—and leave ’em in. Butt plugs all have a similar shape—narrow at the base, thickest in the middle, and narrowest on top. The flared base prevents the plug from sliding up inside and disappearing.
Designed to stay still inside (rather than be pushed in and out), butt plugs do more than give a feeling of fullness while they condition the anus for more fun—they also intensify his sensations at the moment of orgasm.
Beads
Many men and women enjoy the feeling of the anus opening and closing around these smooth orgasm- enhancing beads. Just pre-insert a strand of lubed beads into his anus, then slowly pull them out with each orgasmic contraction.
