which means ‘the Place Where Death Comes.’ ”
The Yemen tourist board should really think about renaming that. I mean, the Empty Quarter is bad enough, but Death Comes is not a winner.
I asked Buck, “And the loser of the border dispute has to keep this place?”
“There is oil there,” Buck answered, then continued. “It is a porous, ill-defined border and a suspected crossing point of AQAP-Al Qaeda in the Arabian Peninsula.”
Right. Maybe that’s where The Panther had a shoot-out with Saudi soldiers. I’m glad I didn’t have to go there. Right?
Buck concluded, “This brief history brings us to the Cole bombing in October 2000. Since then, as you well know, the U.S. has gained a foothold in Yemen, but it is a very tenuous foothold and our mission there could end suddenly if the Yemenis have a change of heart or a change of government.”
That would be nice.
Buck took an ornate curved dagger out of his briefcase, which he unsheathed as he said, “I can cut your throat with this.”
Not if I get to my gun first, Buck.
He smiled and said, “But only if you fall asleep.” He informed us, “This is called a jambiyah, and it’s worn by most men in Yemen. You can buy a jambiyah at a souvenir stand for about three dollars, but the ones made by artisans can cost thousands of dollars. This one is an antique with semi-precious stones and a rhinoceros-horn handle, and is worth about five thousand dollars. According to the last owner, it has been used to kill at least six people.”
Buck advised us, “Never ask to see a man’s jambiyah.” He explained, “A man only unsheathes his jambiyah if he is going to use it.”
He continued, “There is an old Arab war song”-he didn’t sing, but recited-“ ‘Terrible he rode alone, with his Yemen sword for aid; ornament it carried none, but the notches on the blade.’ ”
Right. I’d actually heard those words before, from a guy named Gabe Haytham, an Arab-American on the Task Force, when I was working the case of Asad, The Lion.
Buck was going on now about religion-ninety-eight percent of the country was Muslim, the rest were Christians, Jews, and Hindus. He said, “Before the creation of Israel in 1948, the Sana’a government tolerated its Jews, who are part of their heritage from the days of King Solomon and the Queen of Sheba. In fact, many Yemenis were Jewish until the arrival of Islam.”
Maybe that explains the Yemeni delis in Brooklyn.
He informed us, “Most of the Jews fled to Israel after 1948.” He continued, “The Yemeni constitution supposedly provides for religious freedom for minorities, but there are no churches or synagogues remaining where you can attend services.” He added, “As in most Islamic countries, the conversion of a Muslim to another religion is prohibited, and punishable, usually by death.” He warned us, “Do not proselytize. It’s a capital offense. Though you may quote from the Old and New Testaments, which Muslims consider sacred texts. But try to learn a few passages from the Koran as well.”
“Which Korean?”
“The
“Right.”
Buck continued, “Yemenis speak Arabic, including ancient dialects. Yemeni Arabic is considered the most pure form of the language-unchanged for thousands of years because of the isolation of the country. Many Arabic- language scholars, including Westerners, go to Yemen to study the language. Think of Yemeni Arabic as Shakespearean English, though it is much older.”
I asked Buck, “Do you speak Arabic?”
He replied in Arabic, and I said, “That’s easy for
Kate accidentally kicked me under the table.
Buck said, “Sex.”
I sat up.
“Sex,” he repeated. “We all know or think we know about the Muslims’ attitude toward sex, so I won’t repeat all that you’ve heard, but I’ll recap. Sex outside of marriage is forbidden, and adultery is punishable by death.”
“Right. Screw the divorce lawyers. Get that jambiyah sharpened.”
Buck smiled and said, “That shouldn’t be a concern for a happily married couple.”
Correct, but I had to ask, “Do guys get the death penalty for screwing around?”
“Not usually, but-”
Kate interrupted, “They do with me.”
“Just asking.”
Buck also informed us, “Homosexuality is often punished by death, but rape is usually settled with a cash payment to the victim’s family. But if the rapist claims the sex was consensual, which they always do, then the victim, if she can’t produce four witnesses to the contrary, is sometimes killed by her family. What they call honor killings.”
Okay, we knew all of this, but it was jarring to hear it.
Buck next discussed marriage and family. “Polygamy is legal under Islamic law, and a man may have up to four wives, but polygamy is not common in Yemen.”
“Why not?” Kate asked.
Because what guy wants four women telling him to take out the garbage?
“Because,” said Buck, “most men can’t afford more than one wife.”
Most men, Buck, can’t afford
Buck continued, “Most marriages are arranged.”
I asked, “Do they have Match.com?”
“Yes, but the women in the photos are all veiled and they have no hobbies, interests, jobs, or education.”
Funny. I liked Buck. Even Kate laughed.
Buck informed us, “Custom regards the ideal marriage as a marriage between cousins.”
Like in Kentucky.
“Women are viewed as subordinate and must serve their fathers, husbands, brothers, and even their male children.”
This might be a good year.
Buck said, “The Yemeni constitution states that women are equal to men, but then incorporates many aspects of Sharia law, which negates that equality. For instance, in a court of law, the testimony of one man equals that of two women.”
My lawyer wife asked, “How can they call that equal?”
I volunteered, “Buck just told you. One equals two. Do the math.”
I got another kick. Restless leg syndrome?
Buck also told us that the Yemenis had the highest birthrate of any Arab country-six to ten children were not uncommon-so something was happening when those veils came off.
Buck also said, “There’s a population explosion in progress, and there are now more than twenty million Yemenis, mostly young, in a small, impoverished country with few natural resources. This is a demographic time bomb waiting to go off, and most analysts predict social upheaval within ten years.” He added, “We’re seeing it already.”
Recalling Nabeel, I suggested, “More Yemeni delis in Brooklyn.”
He replied, “In fact, there is a high emigration rate to America, Western Europe, and the oil-rich countries of the Arabian Peninsula, which serves as a safety valve for Yemen and is a source of outside money. But millions of unemployed youths remain in the country.”
Right. I remembered hordes of young men hanging around the streets and souks in Aden with nothing to do. A surefire recipe for trouble, and a fertile ground for Al Qaeda recruiters.
Buck finished up with love and marriage; divorce is easy for men-just say, “I divorce thee” three times-but nearly impossible for women. Pre-nups-marriage contracts-exist and are enforceable, unless you get an asshole judge like I did.
