When there is that undeniable “spark,” there is only one key to the lock.
Let him think he’s in control. He’ll automatically start doing things you want done because he’ll always want to look like “a king” in your eyes.
When you cater to his ego in a soft way, he doesn’t try to get power in an aggressive way.
When you appear softer and more feminine, you appeal to his instinct to
He’ll let a woman who becomes his doormat pay for dinner on the first couple of dates, but he wouldn’t
The token power position is for public display, but the true power position is for private viewing only. And this is the only one that matters.
If you give him a feeling of power, he’ll want to protect you and he’ll want to give you the world.
When a woman acts as though she’s capable of everything, she gets stuck doing everything.
Men don’t respond to words. They respond to no contact.
Talking about the “relationship” too much takes away the element of the “unknown” and thus the mystery.
Men respect women who communicate in a succinct way, because it’s the language men use to talk to one another.
When you are always HAPPY;
And he is always free to GO;
He feels LUCKY.
If you allow your rhythm to be interrupted, you’ll create a void. Then, to replace what you give up, you’ll start to expect and need more from your partner.
Most women are starving to receive something from a man that they need to give to themselves.
A woman looks more secure in a man’s eyes when he can’t pull her away from her life, because she is
The second a woman works overtime to make herself fit his criteria, she has lowered the standard of that relationship.
You jump through hoops any time you repeatedly make it very obvious you’re giving your “all.”
You have to keep from being sucked down into quicksand. Unless you maintain control over yourself, the relationship is doomed.
Jumping through hoops often has a negative outcome: He sees it as an opportunity to have his cake and eat it, too. But when you stay just outside his reach, he’ll stay on his best behavior.
The nice girl gives away too much of herself when pleasing him regularly becomes more important than pleasing herself.
The relationship may not be right for you if you find yourself jumping through hoops. When something is right, it will feel easier and much more effortless.
When you nag, he tunes you out. But when you speak with your actions, he pays attention.
When a man takes a woman for granted, he still looks for reassurance that she is still “right there.”
When the routine becomes predictable, he’s more likely to give you the same type of love he had for his mother—and the odds that he will take you for granted increase.
Negative attention is still attention. It lets a man know that he has you—right where he wants you.
When you treat him casually as though he’s a friend, he’ll come your way. Because he wants things to be romantic, but he also
A little distance combined with the appearance of self-control makes him nervous that he may be losing you.
A man takes a woman for granted when he’s interested, but will no longer go out of his way.
When you nag,
If you take his chores away from him and praise someone else for doing it, he’ll want his chores back.
When you nag, he sees weakness.
He perceives an emotional woman as more of a pushover.
In the same way that familiarity breeds contempt, a slightly aloof demeanor can often renew his respect.
He’ll forget what he has in you… unless you remind him.
Many women talk a lot out of nervousness—which is something that men will often perceive as insecurity.
Talking about feelings to a man will feel like
Forcing him to talk about feelings all the time will not only make you seem needy, it will eventually make him lose respect. And when he loses respect, he’ll pay even less attention to your feelings.
In the beginning, the only thing you need to pay attention to is whether he keeps coming around, because
