there’s no w ay past the present, you are right there in the
middle o f your own real life riding a wave a mile high with
speed and grace and then you are pulled under to the bottom o f
the world. The whole w orld’s alive, everything moves and
wants and loves, the whole w orld’s alive with promise, with
possibility; and I wanted to live, I said yes I want to live.
There’s not something new about wanting love in spite o f
knowing terror; or feeling love and having it push against
your thighs from inside and then those thighs carry you out
past safety into hell. There’s nothing new about wanting to
love a multitude. I was born on Mickle Street in Camden in
1946, down the street from Walt Whitman’s house. I grew up
an orphan sheltered by the passion o f his great heart. He
wanted everyone. He wanted them, to touch. He was forced,
by his time and place, into metaphor. He put it in poems, this
physicalized love that was universal, he named the kinds and
categories he wanted, men and women, he said they were
worthy, all, without exception, he said he wanted to be on
them and in them and he wanted them in him, he said it was
love, he said
he wanted, he made
used grandiose language but it was also common, vulgar; he
says
you, I see you, I recognize you, I want you, I love you,
the C ivil War he was devoted to wounded soldiers. He faced
the maiming and the mutilation, and he loved those boys:
“ (Many a soldier’s loving arms about this neck have cross’d
and rested, /M any a soldier’s kiss dwells on these bearded
lips. )” It was before surgeons washed their hands, before
Lister, and legs were sawed off, sutures were moistened with
saliva, gangrene was commonplace. He visited the wounded
soldiers day in and day out. He didn’t eroticize suffering, no; it
was the communion o f being near, o f touching, o f a tender
intimacy inside a vale o f tears. He saw them suffer and he saw
them die and he wrote: “ (Come sweet death! be persuaded O
beautiful death! / In mercy come quickly. )” I got to say, I don’t
think a three-minute fuck was his meaning. I don’t. It’s an
oceanic feeling inside and you push it outward and once you
start loving humanity there is no reason to make distinctions
o f beauty or kind, there’s something basic in everyone that
asks love, forgiveness, an honorable tenderness, a manly
tenderness, you know, strong. He was generous. Call him a
slut. I f a war happens, it marks you for life, it’s your war.
Walt’s was the C ivil War, North against South, feuding
brothers, a terrible slaughter, no one remembers how bloody