arms or support any violence in w ord or deed, he tried
persuasion and listening and he’d avoid conflict even i f it made
him look weak and he was gentle, even with fools; and I
learned from him that you are supposed to take it, as a person,
and not give back what you got; give back something kinder,
better, subtler, more elevated, something deeper and kinder
and more human. So when he didn’t mind the bomb, when he
liked it because it saved his life, his, I was dumb with surprise
and a kind o f fascinated revulsion. Was it just wanting to stay
alive at any cost or was it something inside that said
got sort o f big and said
personality, a humble, patient person, tender and sensitive; it
went
and existence had to be annihilated.
have died. As a child I was horrified but later I tried to
understand w hy I didn’t have it— I was blank there, it was as if
the tape was erased or something was just missing. If someone
stood between me and existence, how come I didn’t think I
mattered more; w h y didn’t I kill them; I never would put me
above someone else; I never did; I never thought that because
they were doing something to annihilate me I could annihilate
them; I figured I would just be wounded or killed or whatever,
because life and death were random events; like I tried to tell
m y father, maybe he would have lived. When someone pushes
you down on the ground and puts him self in you, he pushes
him self between you and existence— you do die or you will die
or you can die, it’s the luck o f the draw really, not unlike
maybe yo u ’ll get killed or maybe you w o n ’t in a war; except
you don’t get to be proud o f it i f you don’t die. I never thought
anyone should be killed ju st because he endangered m y
existence or corrupted it altogether or just because I was left a
shadow haunting m y own life; I mean really killed. I never
thought anyone should really die just because one day he was
actually going to kill me, fucking render me dead: inevitably,
absolutely; no doubt. I didn’t think any one o f them should
really die. It was outside what I could think of. Is there
anything in me, any
anything that says I am too valuable and this bad thing you are
doing to me will cost you too much or anything that says you
cannot destroy me; cannot; me. If someone tortures you and
you will die from it eventually, someday, for sure, one w ay or
another, and you can’t make the day come soon enough
because the suffering is immense, then maybe he should die
because he pushed him self between you and existence; maybe
you should kill him to push him out o f the way. Do you think
Truman would have bought it? M y daddy wouldn’t have