I’m providing you with quite a bit of information. It’s all well and good if you can read and remember the techniques and concepts, but if you don’t apply them, you might as well not have wasted your time or money on this book.
Make a solid commitment to not only read this book, but to put the principles I share with you into practice in your every day sex life.
Team up with your lover and let her know what you’re reading up on. Ask her to work with you and convince her to agree to offer you honest feedback on the new things you’ll be trying out.
Believe me — she’ll thank you for it later!
CHAPTER 3
Female Sexual Anatomy and Other Erogenous Zones
In this chapter you’ll learn:
• Female sexual body parts that are crucial to sexual pleasure, and where to find them
• Other body parts vital to arousal
The female sexual organs comprise one of the most intricate and sensitive nerve networks in the universe, and it’s yours for the discovering. In this chapter, we’re going to get up close and personal with the ins and outs of the female sexual anatomy and response.
I’ll break it down two different ways: namely, the external anatomy (vulva) and the internal anatomy (vagina). We’ll begin with the external structures, since it’s here that we’ll find that amazingly sensitive clitoris. The key to, arguably, just about every single orgasm any woman has.
External Female Sexual Anatomy
The clitoris is a small, highly sensitive organ that is very important to female sexual response. You can almost think of it as a “mini-penis”.
There are 2 main parts to the clitoris (externally):
1. The shaft
2. The glans (or the clitoral head)
The glans is visible, sticking out like a small lump. The shaft disappears into the body beneath the clitoral hood, which is a layer of tissue that passes around the clitoris.
The clitoris varies in size for different women, much like penis size vary in men.
Women have been blessed with a sex organ with no reproductive purpose — it’s only function is receiving pleasure. It has over 8,000 nerve endings which are intricately networked with the nerves throughout the pelvic region.
Although I’ve labeled it as an “external” organ, most of the clitoris is actually hidden
The shaft of the clitoris extends into the body, and then splitting into two legs form an upside down “V” (the clitoral crura) which lie on both sides of the vaginal opening.
But the key feature of the internal portion of the clitoris is the fact that the clitoris surrounds the urethra (the passage where urine exits the bladder).
What does this mean?
It means that the pleasurable sensations from stimulating the “G-Spot” (the area on the upper wall of the vagina, below the urethra) is through contact with the inner parts of the clitoris!
Also, this can explain the “vaginal orgasm” (orgasm through vaginal penetration), since the interior parts of the clitoris is stimulated.
The mons pubis is the fatty pad of tissue that’s covered by pubic hair. It lies on top of the pubic bone, and on top of the inner clitoral structures.
The labia minora are the fleshy hairless inner lips that lie on either sides of the vaginal entrance. The inner lips come together at the top forming the clitoral hood.
The outer lips are rounded pads of fatty tissue lying on either side of the vaginal entrance.
You’ll find it at the bottom of the vaginal entrance where the inner labia meet.
The perineum, more commonly referred to as the “taint”, is the area between the vaginal opening and the vagina.
Although she might disagree with you, the anus is a highly erogenous zone. But, to stimulate it doesn’t require penetration. The anus has a high concentration of nerve endings, and can feel pleasurable when stimulated.
Remember though, that any anal play requires special attention to hygiene, as the anus and rectum contain (and can spread) bacteria.
Interior Female Sexual Anatomy
The vagina is a tube shaped organ where the penis is inserted during sex (we all know this one!)
But what you might not know is that most of the nerve supply of the vagina to the lower 1/3, near the entrance.
In other words, the most sensitive area of a woman’s vagina is near the front.
On the other hand, the deeper 2/3 of the vagina contains almost no nerve endings… so… it’s insensitive to stimulation (a woman can tell you that she’ll have feelings of deep pressure though).
What does this mean to you?
It means that, even if you have a short penis, you can still give pleasure to your partner while having sex, simply because the back of the vagina just isn’t as sensitive as the front.
The cervix is located at the back of the vagina, and is the opening to the uterus.
Although the cervix has no sexual function, you should be aware of it during intercourse. The cervix is sensitive to pressure, and you could actually bruise it during sex if you’re thrusting too hard!
If you have a long penis, then chances are you’ll be hitting the cervix as you’re thrusting in. Some women
