Sensitive guy? Just like you may be ultra-sensitive to direct clitoral stimulation, he might squirm from over-stimulation of his head. See how he reacts, and if it’s over the top, try stroking him just beneath the ridge, and see if he wants you to glide over the head when he’s about ready to orgasm.
Uncircumcised? Remember that his foreskin is very thin and delicate, so don’t slide it down too far, too hard or too fast. You can gently stroke with the foreskin alone, but it’s always a good idea to apply lots of lube.
Tuckered out? What if the energy in your hand or wrist is finished before he is? Then switch hands! Or take a break and give him a long, wet, deep kiss—but keep caressing his penis.
Try These Positions
The better you feel, the better he’ll feel. Whichever position you choose, just be sure your hands can move freely, and you’re comfortable, balanced and warm.
The most common position for a handjob is to lie down right next to him, but these exciting variations will thrill him deeply:
You straddle his legs for bird’s eye view—or even wrap your legs around his.
You kneel on the floor while he stands in front of you.
You lie behind him, simulating his own masturbation motions.
He straddles your hips, so he can caress your breasts and enjoy watching you stroke him.
You each sit cross-legged facing the TV, twisting your torsos toward each other. Now watch an adult video while your hands work their magic.
The Grand Finale
His muscles are tensing, his breathing is accelerating, his penis is bulging and his balls are tightening.
If he should suddenly veer away from his orgasm, try more stimulation to the head. Or less. Or add some lube. Or just ask him what he’d like you to do.
When he reaches that tantalizing point-of-no-return, don’t stop—ever—even if your wrist feels like it’s going to fall off! After the first orgasmic pulsations, begin downshifting your motions, because he’s starting to become extra sensitive.
For a true handjob masterpiece, remember: he LOVES to watch himself come. And he LOVES to watch you watching him.You will launch your guy into seventh heaven by inviting it out of him with hot, spontaneous passion, and then sending it where he can see everything. Right before he explodes, offer him your breasts, tummy, neck, face, arms or even feet for him to come on, and you will be worshiped like never before!
For a graceful finish, never race for the tissues or jump straight into the shower.Tell him how much he turned you on. Caress his penis very gently. Play with his come. Cuddle. Give him a nice deep kiss.Then give him an orgasm aftershock: hold his softening penis at the base, and bring your hand slowly up the shaft, putting light pressure on the underside, like you’re squeezing the last bit of toothpaste out of the tube.
Do unto others. How do guygasms feel? We’ll never know for sure, but it probably feels very similar to our own orgasms.After all, guys have the same ultra-sensitive nerve endings in the head of the penis that we’ve got in the clitoris. And our bodies react orgasmically in much the same way: involuntary contractions of the PC muscle after that delicious point-of-no-return.
My point? Try the same touching techniques on your guy that you crave yourself: softer rather than harder, slower rather than faster—as well as knowing the moment when faster is better than slower!
Basic Grips
It’s easy to get comfortable with just one grip and forget there are many more variations than you even see here. Not every grip will work for your guy—so be sure to improvise—and discover which ones become his new favorites. Don’t forget the lube!
oh-Oh-OH-KAY! To form the world’s most natural grip, make the “OK” sign by touching your index (or middle) finger to your thumb, then slip it around his shaft. Now you can travel the entire length, adjusting the pressure to his liking.
Thank U! Cradle his penis in the ‘U’ between your thumb and your fingers, with your thumb touching the underside of his shaft. Keeping your wrist loose and your grip firm, begin stroking at a diagonal angle.
Sausage Wrap. Just enclose his shaft in your five hot little fingers with your thumb at the top and stroke.
Upside-Down Sausage Wrap. Reposition your wrist so your thumb is facing the bottom of his shaft.
Two-Fister. Try any of the basic grips above, but use two hands. Don’t lose your balance!
Handjob How-To’s
Combine your favorite grips with these erotic techniques and write your own happy endings.
Ol’ Faithful. Hold him around the base of his shaft, and as you slowly glide your fingers up over the head of his penis, tighten your grip. Before you head back down, loosen your fingers. Use your other hand to caress his balls or his taint.
Twister. With every stroke, give a slippery twist up and down the length of his shaft. Just think of the classic barber shop stripe on the pole!
Pumper. Starting at the base of his penis, stroke way up past the tip. Start again at the base and keep repeating. This big-sensation stroke works well to turn soft into hard.
Turtleneck. No lube necessary! Grasp him firmly just under the ridge, and stretch his skin
