ZetaTalk: Visitations

can close

off avenues to the pain. In fact, when this pain is remembered, these avenues are severed, like slamming doors shut, so

that the connection points between the pain and the joy are broken and eventually only the joy is remembered. This is

in fact documentable, and has been documented, that this is the way people remember experiences. In the long path,

they remember the good parts, not the bad. Therefore, contactees who are remembering something painful have

separated that out and are getting rid of it. Often the painful parts are remembered first, in recall, because it is

something vivid. After the painful part is eliminated, the contactee begins remembering other aspects of the visit. Bear

with it, let your mind heal and deal with the painful contact experience as it deals with other painful experiences, and

see what stands behind it. You are being contacted because you asked for this, and you wished for what came to you,

so don’t fail to dig deep enough to find out the full picture.

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ZetaTalk: Blocking

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ZetaTalk: Blocking

Note: written on Aug 15, 1996

Many contactees find that, try as they may, they cannot recall their visitations as other contactees seem to do. All

manner of attempts, including professional hypnosis, will be tried to no avail. What's going on here? In human society,

and in particular in many contactee's lives, there is a conflict about the alien presence and thus there can be a conflict within the contactee. Does the spouse believe that man is not alone and is being visited by beings from other worlds?

Is the employer ultra-conservative, such that a slip of the tongue in the coffee room will place doubts in the employer's mind about the contactee's promotability? Is the family supportive, the friends accepting, or will the contactee find

they are increasingly treated as an eccentric and left out of social plans.

Where the contactee fears repercussions in his life he will tend to block. The mind is aware of these blockages, as it has put them there, and thus can effectively resist attempts to get around them. In effect, the block is the result of the total mind-set of the contactee, and this conclusion will not be gotten around by a part of the mind desiring recall. As with amnesia or coma or just plain forgetfulness, that which the total mind-set cannot deal with will tend to be pushed

aside. In order to achieve recall, then, the contactee must make changes in their life so that recall is not a threat. Most find this difficult, especially if family or a job or the marital situation is the problem.

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ZetaTalk: Signs

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ZetaTalk: Signs

Note: written on Oct 15, 1995

Given that contactees recall their visits only in their subconscious and must build a conscious memory base, and given

that the governments of the world and the establishments are reluctant to admit to the alien presence, it is not

surprising that contactees deal with many doubts. The issues of maintaining an element of doubt, necessary so that the

Awakening can proceed without raising the level of anxiety and fear in the populace, seems unnecessary to many

contactees, who would welcome some reassurance.

Give me a sign, many ask, so that I will know this is real and not just my imagination. Even in the face of confirmation from the books they read and friends they meet at contact groups, many contactees find their need for reassurance

becoming a burning issue. This point is often reached when the contactee determines to make changes in their life

because of their convictions, and cannot explain their decisions to family and friends. They know they will be

considered eccentric at best for the steps they plan, and beyond wanting something to show others as rationale, they

simply want something solid to cling to during the lonely times when they are subject to ridicule. Give me a sign.

What has meaning for one person is meaningless to another, so personal signs are often given to individual contactees

at the crossroads where normal living is about to be left behind and dedication taken up. Personal signs have great

significance to the person, but by their nature cannot be used as proof of the alien presence.

One person may find their shoes lined up on a different side of the closet, something they would never do. Another

may find that bag of chips they intended to buy but forgot suddenly appearing on the counter top. Yet another might

find their beard clipped, a routine of personal hygiene done weekly but not yet done this past week. The person is

momentarily stunned, then combs through the recent past to see if they might have forgotten. The sign is understood

for what it is, based on the intensity of the contactee's anguish going into the sign and their often adamant cries for a sign of some kind. The two go together. Signs are always given when the contactee least expects them, sometimes after

they have given up hope of getting their request answered. This is to ensure that the contactee is not led astray as to

the nature of the alien presence. As we are by the rules restrained from interfering with the conduct of human affairs,

we do not wish to lead our contactees into believing that we can be relied upon to respond. Signs are also given in a

manner that is meaningless to anyone but the contactee, and most clearly recognize this and do not try to impress or

convince others.