loud stories, vulgar jokes; and then, with me, quiet, shy, so
shy. I met him when he had just come back from driving an
illegal car two times in the last month into Eastern Europe,
crossing the borders illegally into Stalinist Eastern bloc
countries— I never understood exactly which side he was
on— he said both— he said he took illegal things in and illegal
people out— borders didn’t stop him, armies didn’t stop him, I
crossed borders with him later, he could cross any border; he
wore a red star he said the Soviets had given him, a star o f
honor from the government that only some party insiders ever
got, and then he fucked them over by delivering anarchy in his
forays in and out o f their fortressed imperial possessions. He
had a Russian nickname, his
subversion, an assault on society, war against all shit and all
authority, his
anyone knew he had; no one could trace him to his fam ily, his
origins, where he slept: a son paying rent. Except me. In fact
the cops arrested him for not paying traffic tickets, thousands
o f dollars, under the conventional birth name; he ended in the
real prison resisting arrest. Even in jail he was still safely
underground, the
in custody. When I married him I got his real name planted on
me by law and I knew his secrets, this one and then others,
slow ly all o f them, the revolutionary ones and the ones that
went with being a boy o f his time, his class, his parents, a boy
raised to conform, a boy given a dull, stupid name so he would
be dull and stupid, a boy named to become a man who would
live to collect a pension. I was M rs. him, the female one o f him
by law, a legal incarnation o f what he fucking hated, an actual
legal entity, because there is no Mrs.
name ever mattered on the streets or underground, not her
own real name anyway, only if she was some fox to him, a
legendary fox. I was one: yeah, a great one. I had m y time. But
it was nasty to become Mrs. his Christian names and his
daddy’s last name, the w ay they say M rs. Edw ard Jam es Fred
Smith, as if she’s not Sally or Jane; the wedding was m y
baptism, m y naming, Mrs. what he hates, the one who needs
furniture and money, the one you come home to which means
you got to be somewhere, a rule, a law, Mrs. the law, the one
who says get the mud o ff your shoes because it’s dirtying the
floor, the one who just cleaned the fucking floor after all. I
never thought about mud in my whole fucking life but when
you clean the floor you want to be showed respect. I lived with
him before we got married; we were great street fighters; we
were great. N o one could follow the chaos we made, the
disruptions, the lightning-fast transgressions o f law; passports, borders, taking people or things here