Why Men Love Bitches

my wife. And that’s a good thing, isn’t it?”

13. “Sometimes a woman can make a guy feel important by asking questions or expressing an interest in what he likes. They can try something new together that they wouldn’t normally do. I’d suggest planning a weekend away with him that you can both look forward to.”

14. “The weekends can be filled with a lot of busywork. Shuttling the kids around or doing housework. I think it can help keep the romance to do some of the mundane things apart from one another. Sometimes in the morning I can take the kids while she does chores, and then she can take the kids out while I stay at home and do certain duties. In the evenings you have a better time being together. I don’t need to see my wife cleaning the floors with a bandana on.”

15. “It’s comforting if you’ve been with someone awhile to do the same three tricks in bed that you know they like. But it becomes routine after awhile. Throw in a changeup or a curve ball. It doesn’t have to be outrageous, just something you don’t normally do.”

ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #71

Don’t always do the same thing over and

over in the bedroom. Vary it so that it

doesn’t become a predictable routine.

The Top Fifteen Things That Turn Men Off

There were just a few miscellaneous comments men had about other things that put them off. This section may be self-explanatory to some, while others may find these things not so obvious. In any event, since your man is not likely to say these things directly, you might want to make a small mental note of the following:

1. “A woman should always keep the bathroom door closed when she’s on the toilet. I think it’s really disgusting to watch a woman on the toilet. And don’t leave feminine pads and stuff around for the guy to look at, either. We don’t even like it when we see douche commercials on TV”.

2. “I get a little turned off by a woman who is too materialistic. If she pays attention to what kind of shoes I’m wearing or what kind of watch I have on or what kind of car I drive, I’ll back off”.

3. “When a woman is jealous, it can be a turnoff. One time I was on a date and this person with long blonde hair was in the car next to us. My date accused me of checking her out. It turned out to be a guy!”

4. “Mystery is important. I was on the phone with a woman and the first time we spoke she said that she was going to lose weight so we could have sex. How much does a guy need to be talked into having sex?”

5. “I don’t like a woman who doesn’t have a life, or a job. Or messed-up credit. Or an old boyfriend who’s a nut case. I like a woman who is responsible.”

6. “I like a woman I can see without any pressure involved. If a guy is under a lot of pressure and she adds to it, he’ll immediately shut down.”

7. “I don’t like it when a woman makes me look bad in front of people. If I do something wrong, she should bring it up at home.”

8. “When he walks in the door after a long day, let him do his own thing for a half-hour. Acknowledge his presence and give him a kiss and don’t immediately drop what you need on him.”

9. “A woman shouldn’t let a guy know she is centering her world around him. One girl told me she spent three hours getting ready to meet me for the first time. That’s a little too much.”

10. “The fear every guy has is that after marriage the girl is going to cut her hair off, gain a bunch of weight, and stop putting out.”

11. “No woman who wants to be involved with a halfway decent guy should ever get drunk with him. If you’re home drinking and you get a buzz, that’s one thing. If you’re at a bar and you make an idiot of yourself, it’s a total turnoff. No one likes to be with a drunk”.

12. “Never let a guy know you’re sitting home waiting for his call, or that he’s your whole life. He also likes knowing other men want you, just as long as you aren’t sleeping with any of them.”

13. “When a woman chases you, it will turn you off. I remember when the sorority girls would come over to the fraternities. In a way, I felt like the cows were coming to graze on our turf. It was too easy”.

14. “It’s like punching a clock when you’re with a woman who makes you feel like you have to report back to her. That’s an instant turnoff”.

15. “A woman should never show up unannounced, both at a guy’s house or at his work. He’ll instantly think of her as a ‘fatal attraction’ type.”

The Top Fifteen Reasons Men Prefer a Feisty Woman

Women are almost brainwashed since kindergarten that they should be nice. Just think about the nursery rhyme that says girls are made of “sugar and spice and everything nice.” Pop culture does not encourage women to be feisty, so women get the idea that being nice, and agreeable is the winning ticket. It’s good to be nice. It’s when a woman feels she has to be nice independent of how she is treated that there’s a problem. It often means the woman is nice at the expense of being self-abnegating.

As you’ve read throughout these chapters, a man will often be turned off by a woman who doesn’t stand her ground. When you read the following quotes, this message should come full circle, since now you will be hearing it directly from men: They are secretly turned on by a bitch, or a woman who will stand up for herself. At this point we are getting to the meat and potatoes of the “Other Team’s Secret Playbook”. Here’s where men—in their own words—disclose why they are turned on by bitches. This is one of their best-kept secrets of all.

1. “When you banter with a woman and she can give it right back to you, it’s a turn-on.”

2. “I like a woman who can put me in my place. If I’m being a jerk and she brings it to my attention, it makes me respect her.”

3. “The childlike qualities in us [men] propel us to try to take advantage. It’s a good thing to know the woman you love won’t put up with it.”

4. “Yes, I admit it. Sometimes I start a fight with my wife. It isn’t that I deliberately want to give her a hard time; it’s just that sometimes I have a hard day and misery loves company. When she puts me in my place, it makes me respect her.”

5. “I like a woman who won’t play games. Her confidence says that she must know something I don’t. Then I say to myself, ‘Hey, she must be worth keeping.’”

6. “When a woman is always really sweet and nice, it can become monotonous.”

7. “If a guy thinks a woman is stupid, he won’t take her attention that seriously because he doesn’t respect her opinion. If she’s really smart and appears to have her act together, I am more flattered that she wants to be with me. I feel like I have something of value.”

ATTRACTION PRINCIPLE #72

Most men tend to disrespect a woman

who appears to be too malleable.

8. “When you try to get away with doing something you know isn’t right and a woman says, ‘I don’t have time for that,’ it can be a turnon. It depends on the situation, but I like a woman who has the integrity to stand by what she believes.”

9. “She is so sexy to me when she has that spiciness about her. She isn’t afraid to disagree or tell me what she thinks. She doesn’t always kiss my ass and that keeps me on my toes.”

10. “She didn’t take anything lying down. I complained at the time, but I admit this turned me on.”