TECHNIQUE #79:
THE X-RATED INTERVIEW
As he's telling you what really turns him on, keep your Quarry talking, and talking, and talking.
Pretend you're a TV hostess interviewing a movie star on his latest film. Ask your Quarry every conceivable question about his hot fantasies.
Punctuate his answers by purring, twinkling your eyes, moaning, licking your lips, and giving him other subtle signs of approval.
Huntresses, you must now get a clear picture of how far your Quarry wants to go with his fantasies. Ask him if he prefers to think about his fantasies during sex, wants to talk about them while making love, or would like to actually act them out. This is a potentially dangerous question because he might take it as his big opener and ask you if you would fulfill his fantasy. Don't say no. Don't say yes. Leave him guessing, but convince him you are open-minded.
In the instance of the two-women fantasy, you might say, "Well, I've never gone to bed with another woman, but it sounds very exciting. I'd have to give it a lot of thought." Believe me, you will never have to go to bed with another woman if you don't want to.
The fantasy alone will keep him going for years. In fact, many men justpreferthe fantasy.
Huntresses, Discover His Trigger Words
Huntresses, we have heard many times that a man is visual when it comes to sex, but did you know he is also very auditory? Like a little kid listening to bedtime stories, a man loves to hear the magic words that turn him on—over, and over, and over again. I call themtrigger words because they are bullets that shoot straight through to their target. Trigger words aimed at a woman's heart are a powerful relationship booster, but let's talk now about how trigger words aimed at a man's sexual desires are a potent aphrodisiac.
A man can close his eyes to the concrete world of job and family and bills and submerge himself in a universe of sexual fantasy. When you whisper the precise words that trigger his desire, you can Page 283
propel him right into another world, and he takes you along with him.
Men love to talk about sex with a woman who will pass no negative judgments. If some men are willing to rack up hefty charges on their credit cards just to share their fantasies with a woman on the phone, talking about fantasies must be important to them.
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or girlfriends call a sex-phone service to tell a strange woman what turns them on.
What happens in a typical hot talk 900-number call?
A woman with a sexy voice asks (after payment terms have been arranged, of course), ''What are you thinking about? What are your
sexiest, deepest, hottest fantasies? Hmmm? Tell me all about it." All she needs is a few sentences from him to get him rolling. Whatever the caller says, the woman pretends to be very excited about it: "Oh, really? Ummm, I like that."
A phone-line pro has been trained to listen carefully to her caller's words—to use, if you will, the Echoing technique we talked about previously. She makes up a story, a fantasy, usinghiswords.
Let's go back to our example of the widespread male fantasy of two women having sex together. Suppose a phone-sex caller said he'd like to "watch two blonds who are hot for each other go at it." That's all the pro needs. She has her trigger words to give him his money's worth. The call might go something like this.
She might say, "Oh, you like to watch two womengo at it , hmmm? I like other women. Especially blonds ." (Notice, the phone-sex pro didn't say have sex, make love , or even the "f" word. She used her caller's precise phrase, go at it .) Her caller would respond breathlessly, "You do?" "Oh, yes," she'll answer. ''I'vegoneat it with lots of women. Funny, now that I think of it, they've all been blonds ."
Her caller's heavy breathing starts. "Are . . . are . . .
areyoublond?" he asks. When she answers, "Oh, yes.
I've got long blond hair. I'm about 5'9"," he gasps.
Now the operator racks her brain to make up a story.
After all, the meter is running, and she wants to keep her caller on the line as long as she can. "Well, it just was last summer," she begins. "I spotted Sheila sitting on the other side of the pool. She was combing out her lonbglondhair. When she stood up I noticed she was very talland had a beautiful body. I started to get hot for her . I walked over to her and. . . ."
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There was, of course, never any Sheila, never any swimming pool, and never any sex between the 900-number lady and another woman. In fact, the 900-number woman probably wasn't blond, wasn't tall, and might not even be a woman. Sometimes transvestites with feminine voices work for the900-numberservices.Butthesedetailsdon'tmatter .It'sthefan tasy,andthetriggerwords,
that count with the caller.
TECHNIQUE #80 (FOR HUNTRESSES):
TRIGGER WORDS
Listen carefully when your Quarry has shed his inhibitions and is talking about sex. Does he say woman, female, lady, chick, girl, doll, babe? To turn him on, be eroticallycorrect, not politically correct.
Whe n he's feeling erotic, does he refer to your breasts, boobs, titties, knockers, kajoobies?
If you want to turn up the heat, forget your ladylike euphemisms during sex. Use whatever wordsheuses.
Your Quarry might not have a sexual fantasy as specific as the one in the example we used, but just get him talking about sex—anything about sex. Ask him about previous sexual experiences. Ask him what he thinks about when he masturbates (all men do). Ask him what would be the most exciting sexual experience he could imagine.
Listen to his choice of words. When he's feeling comfortable, how does he refer to his penis? Don't copy the word he uses when he's in polite conversation. Listen for the one he says
